@ liquidice, I agree with most of what you have said, and can empathize with you in the fact that your people have a history of oppresion just as mine have. I've often wondered why other groups who have gone through oppression seem to get back on their feet and fluorish, while a lot of african-americans are still struggling. The only thing that I can think of is the community. I don't know many Jewish people, but from what I have seen the strength of the community is very important to the culture (correct me if I'm wrong). The black-american COMMUNITY is not united. It's very divided, and I think that started when slavery was abolished (but my theories on that are for a whole other discussion). Point being, the community is not strong, or at least not as strong as it should be. Part of the reason is because we were forced to leave our homeland. We came to this continent having to forsake everything we knew, our culture, our way of speaking...everything--and we were forced to assimilate to the ways of, well...white people. I wasn't a victim of slavery (thank God) but it still hurts to know that I can't really trace my ancestry back to know where I'm really from because my people were forced to leave Africa. I know I have roots there, but which country am I from? which tribe? I'll never know.
I think that at one point affirmative action was absolutely necessary for blacks as a whole. It's not fair to enslave a people, not even educate them and treat them like crap, decide to set them free and they're supposed to have the same odds of making it as someone else? It's not going to happen. So, yes at one point we needed affirmative action, and I believe it should still exist not just for blacks but for anyone who is living in poverty or goes to a crappy school and wants to make a better life for themselves. It's so easy for people to say, "well, you got a bad hand, life's not fair" and go on living their cozy comfy life (and I'm not saying anyone here said that, just in general). And I know that many people have made it without help, but just because they have doesn't mean help shouldn't be offered. That's just my opinion. For those that want to slack and receive a handout because of their skin color, I say that's a shame because that person isn't doing anything to eradicate stereotypes and advance the EFFORTS put in by their own people. But to me, the socioeconomic barrier is much bigger than the race barrier--because you all know the saying, and it's true: the rich keep getting rich and the poor keep getting poorer.