Originally posted by Sage144
Comments: This is such an outrageous thread, it makes me want to vomit.
re: (1), Not particular to Asians. "Encouraging parents" are not a culturally specific characteristic.
You miss the point here. Nowhere does mecute say that encouraging parents are a "culturally specific characteristic." Look simply at the words stated and not on your personally-injected implications. mecute simply states that "encouraging parents" are a factor that helps AA students succeed. Even if "encouraging parents" are not particular to Asians, it does not mean that a majority of AA parents are not encouraging ones. Can you prove that most AA students do NOT have encouraging parents? If not, then move on...
Originally posted by Sage144
re: (2) hard-work and competition are AMERICAN and not Asian values. A great work-ethic can be viewed as predominately an Asian characteristic more than other cultures, however, you may be overlooking the potent downfalls of working all the time. SO many work work work work in order to succeed, and if success is based on academic merit, then great. But, most people would view success as a function of having a great social life in good balance with education, etc. , and I can't say that those values are well represented in the Asian community.
Again, I am forced to believe that you have let your angry emotions get the better of you in this judgement, and again you have missed the point. To review what you just stated... "hard work and competition [are] NOT Asian values." Who is to say that??? Do you have first-hand experience living in an Asian society? Also who is to say that "most people" would view success as a function of having a great social life in good balance with education, etc.? Not only is success subjective, but it also depends on the context of the kind of environment in which those who pursue it live. Even if everyone were to agree with your idea of success, there would still be disagreement as to what that balance should be.
Even if we didn't go there, mecute was simply saying that Asian culture is founded upon hard work and competition. If you have ever taken courses in the sociology and history of Asian cultures such as India, China, Japan, Korea, Vietnam, Singapore, etc etc etc., I am completely baffled as to how you can muster up the audacity to make such an obviously spiteful and ignorant claim as this.
Added to this is your slap in the face saying that such a "successful" balance of social life and academic achievement is not well represented in the Asian community. You can't say that you see this, huh? I don't know where you've been looking, but I'm sure it was an isolated glance, and so I can't see this as anything but a racist comment. It would be akin to my visiting the worst Detroit slum and saying I couldn't see values of community and good citizenship in African Americans. That's just crazy. Would you agree that most of those who successfully make it into medical school or into a top university in the US are well-adjusted well-rounded individuals who excel in academics, extracurricular activities, and have a high level of social and leadership skills? If so... see the Chronicle of Higher Education article by Kursanow:
"Asian Americans, though only 4 percent of the nation's population, account for nearly 20 percent of all medical students. Forty-five percent of Berkeley's freshman class, but only 12 percent of California's populace, consists of Asian-Americans."
Originally posted by Sage144
re: (4). Conformity = Success? I don't understand
Let me remind you of what exactly mecute stated to help clear things up for you. "4.) Proud people who do not want to be treated differently than others, and in doing so conforms to the majority of societal ideals in which they live in." Perhaps mecute could have made this a tiny bit more clear. Essentially, AA usually, mostly do not seek favorable treatment. Immigrant Asians may come to this country disadvantaged, but as a proud people, they expect to work as hard as those that they see as having risen to success in this country do. They CONFORM to the very "American values" (mecute's "societal ideals") you stated above that they envisioned--hard work and competition. Prejudices against and ignorant degenerating overgeneralizations about Asians abound... the nerdy math genius Asian, the passive quiet Asian, that weird-looking weird-smelling doesn't-look-like-me Asian, etc. Does the discriminiation get them down? Most likely no. Because deep inside burn the dreams of what they came here for. Besides, success is the best revenge, and they don't need some belittling helping hand they didn't work for to get up that ladder.
Originally posted by Sage144
re: (5). Have you been to JAPAN? All I have to say: The Japanese OBSESSSION with American pop-culture ad nauseum.
Ok, perhaps you have a point with this one, without even having to mention that mean-spirited remark about the Japanese. The idolizing of superstars in music, movies, and pro sports is a widespread occurrence that I don't see as predominant or absent in any particular culture. But, since there aren't all that many AA idols in music, movies, or professional sports for AA's to look up to in American culture anyway, who do they see as similar to themselves that they can emulate? Their uncle the surgeon; their family friend the corporate lawyer; their many cousins in medical schools; their older sister the journalist; their aunt the university professor; their dad the PhD-holding engineer.
Unrelatedly... It's interesting that you talk about the so-called Japanese obsession with American pop-culture. As the richest country in the world, the US can and does churn out what seems to be the highest percentage of over-inflated celebrities for all to gawk at. The US can practically cram these unavoidable juggernauts down everyone else's throats along with the implicated one-sided ideals of beauty and attractiveness that they come with. It's not a surprise what happened to the Japanese, but the "obsession" you speak of is rapidly on the decline, and the Japanese have their own distinct pop culture that they have successfully managed to infiltrate into the American scene. Sanrio, sushi, martial arts, zen gardens, anime, etc. Heck, American children were crazy obsessed with the power rangers at one point.
Originally posted by Sage144
re: (6) This is BS. I have no idea what you are trying to say.
Not surprising. mecute originally stated, "Consistently rising average test scores and gpas at or near the top of the population every year, and as a result an ever-rising bar of which to measure ourselves by." I may not have the data to back up the scores/numbers claim, but I believe it is true, and unless you can provide data to refute it, I will continue to laugh at your cluelessness.
Originally posted by Sage144
Your post is the most idiotic ones I think I've ever read in this forum. You should be embarrassed.
Your final comments simply provide additional demonstration of your lack of tact, immaturity, and outright ignorance. Please think before you post.