Kissed my student host...

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So... I had an interview this week in a large city in the Northeast. I stayed for 2 nights with an awesome female host who lived with another girl and two guys (all 2nd years). After a great interview 😀, I went out with my hosts to celebrate since they just finished a big exam. Long story short, we went to a couple of bars, had a few drinks, and I ended kissing one of my host's male roommates. Nothing more serious happened, but I'm unsure about what to do (if anything) at this point...

I realize that my actions were not well-thought 🙁 but does anyone have any constructive advice?
 
I feel like there's no advice to give. There's nothing you can do so you might as well just brush your shoulders off and tell people about it.
 
MonkfishSushi said:
So... I had an interview this week in a large city in the Northeast. I stayed for 2 nights with an awesome female host who lived with another girl and two guys (all 2nd years). After a great interview 😀, I went out with my hosts to celebrate since they just finished a big exam. Long story short, we went to a couple of bars, had a few drinks, and I ended kissing one of my host's male roommates. Nothing more serious happened, but I'm unsure about what to do (if anything) at this point...

I realize that my actions were not well-thought 🙁 but does anyone have any constructive advice?
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epic.
 
Nothing. You didn't do anything.

You had a couple drinks, kissed an acquaintance. No biggie.

Unless, you are thinking about a less spontaneous repeat, in which case email your host and get his info.
 
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MonkfishSushi said:
So... I had an interview this week in a large city in the Northeast. I stayed for 2 nights with an awesome female host who lived with another girl and two guys (all 2nd years). After a great interview 😀, I went out with my hosts to celebrate since they just finished a big exam. Long story short, we went to a couple of bars, had a few drinks, and I ended kissing one of my host's male roommates. Nothing more serious happened, but I'm unsure about what to do (if anything) at this point...

I realize that my actions were not well-thought 🙁 but does anyone have any constructive advice?
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Wait, how does that relate to medical school discussions?
 
MonkfishSushi said:
So... I had an interview this week in a large city in the Northeast. I stayed for 2 nights with an awesome female host who lived with another girl and two guys (all 2nd years). After a great interview 😀, I went out with my hosts to celebrate since they just finished a big exam. Long story short, we went to a couple of bars, had a few drinks, and I ended kissing one of my host's male roommates. Nothing more serious happened, but I'm unsure about what to do (if anything) at this point...

I realize that my actions were not well-thought 🙁 but does anyone have any constructive advice?
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Your actions were not well thought out! Shame on you! You should've gone all the way!😡
 
Ok people, let me give you the *other* side of the story. I was the male roommate that she 'kissed'. I actually let all my roommate's visitors kiss me, since I got to kiss my host's roommate when I interviewed two years ago. Now she wants to go to the dean of my med school and throw me under the bus for 'cheating' on my roommate. I thought it was generally understood that we are supposed to share kisses.













Anyone get this reference? Anyone?
 
aSagacious said:
Ok people, let me give you the *other* side of the story. I was the male roommate that she 'kissed'. I actually let all my roommate's visitors kiss me, since I got to kiss my host's roommate when I interviewed two years ago. Now she wants to go to the dean of my med school and throw me under the bus for 'cheating' on my roommate. I thought it was generally understood that we are supposed to share kisses.













Anyone get this reference? Anyone?
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ps. Saggy, I loved MSU CHM yesterday.
 
Sesom said:
Your actions were not well thought out! Shame on you! You should've gone all the way!😡
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Well, we did sleep together in his bed that night (much more comfy then their couch) but nothing happened. Haha, I'm not that easy. Maybe if I get accepted 😉

I just want to avoid any ethical issues if people find out. It would be embarrassing to have a reputation before even being accepted to a school 🙄 My hosts told me that inter-medical school dating news spreads like wildfire so I expect half of the medical school to know about my "exploits" by the end of next week. Sigh.
 
MonkfishSushi said:
Well, we did sleep together in his bed that night (much more comfy then their couch) but nothing happened. Haha, I'm not that easy. Maybe if I get accepted 😉

I just want to avoid any ethical issues if people find out. It would be embarrassing to have a reputation before even being accepted to a school 🙄 My hosts told me that inter-medical school dating news spreads like wildfire so I expect half of the medical school to know about my "exploits" by the end of next week. Sigh.
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So you're a bit of a *****?

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Join us in 2016?
 
I'm guessing this girl isn't very pretty.

Because this is nothing new for hot girls unless they are virtuous and they wouldn't go around telling/borderline bragging to people on messageboards.
 
wololololololo said:
Grey's Anatomy: Med School Edition?
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You know, I watched about half an episode before I stopped watching this show. What is the appeal to male med students? It just seems like one gigantic chick flick.
 
Because it is. I think the show is pretty much centered around relationship drama. So it's sort of like Sex in the City but in a hospital with residents (that still get to go out everyday and look FABULOUS).
 
aSagacious said:
Ok people, let me give you the *other* side of the story. I was the male roommate that she 'kissed'. I actually let all my roommate's visitors kiss me, since I got to kiss my host's roommate when I interviewed two years ago. Now she wants to go to the dean of my med school and throw me under the bus for 'cheating' on my roommate. I thought it was generally understood that we are supposed to share kisses.








Anyone get this reference? Anyone?
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LMFAO This reminds me of that soap note situation that had happened awhile ago lol
 
wololololololo said:
Because it is. I think the show is pretty much centered around relationship drama. So it's sort of like Sex in the City but in a hospital with residents (that still get to go out everyday and look FABULOUS).
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Interesting, since Sarah Jessica Parker and Sandra Oh both have faces that look like feet.
 
Looking back at the post I will say this to the opener.

Stop making out with random guys. How about sticking to boyfriends or your future husband. Think of how he would feel if you were acting like a ho bag.

It is really slutty and makes women in general look easy. Think before you act.
 
iceman132 said:
Looking back at the post I will say this to the opener.

Stop making out with random guys. How about sticking to boyfriends or your future husband. Think of how he would feel if you were acting like a ho bag.

It is really slutty and makes women in general look easy. Think before you act.
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OP kissed a guy or did I miss something...?
 
CodeBlu said:
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No, not you OP... Iceman, don't act like you've never made out with a stranger. If you haven't... you're either in high school still.... or you're just sheltered.
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I went to one of the top party schools in the USA and saw plenty of disgusting sinful acts.

I never made out with a stranger because I didn't act like a deranged bar hopping animal. (I do admit that I got smashed on 151 twice though. I have learned from those mistakes)

One of the reasons I think it is so disgusting is I learned a girl I was dating made out with some random dude..... Didn't really feel like tasting random dudes mouths. It shows a lack of character and conscious.

A boyfriend is one thing. Some random dude is just slutty.
 
MonkfishSushi said:
So... I had an interview this week in a large city in the Northeast. I stayed for 2 nights with an awesome female host who lived with another girl and two guys (all 2nd years). After a great interview 😀, I went out with my hosts to celebrate since they just finished a big exam. Long story short, we went to a couple of bars, had a few drinks, and I ended kissing one of my host's male roommates. Nothing more serious happened, but I'm unsure about what to do (if anything) at this point...

I realize that my actions were not well-thought 🙁 but does anyone have any constructive advice?
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This is the stuff student-host dreams are made of.👍
 
iceman132 said:
I went to one of the top party schools in the USA and saw plenty of disgusting sinful acts.

I never made out with a stranger because I didn't act like a deranged bar hopping animal. (I do admit that I got smashed on 151 twice though. I have learned from those mistakes)

One of the reasons I think it is so disgusting is I learned a girl I was dating made out with some random dude..... Didn't really feel like tasting random dudes mouths. It shows a lack of character and conscious.

A boyfriend is one thing. Some random dude is just slutty.
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🙄

You're either naive or trolling.
 
XklusivGuy said:
There are two types of girls for most guys:

1. Wife material
2. Everyone else.

There is no other set of standards - especially in college.
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I'm not really sure at what your getting at. If you're saying then you should be looking for someone with qualities of a wife then I agree.
 
iceman132 said:
Not naive or trolling.

Your standards are just insanely low.
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Probably, but that's irrelevant. 😉

The fact of the matter is that kissing a guy is not slutty at all. OP kissed one (1) guy who happened to be her host.
 
Charles Darwin said:
Probably, but that's irrelevant. 😉

The fact of the matter is that kissing a guy is not slutty at all. OP kissed one (1) guy who happened to be her host.
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You know what... We're just going to keep going around in circles with this so I'll try another tactic.

Let's say the opener is your girlfriend or sister. Is what she did okay?
 
iceman132 said:
You know what... We're just going to keep going around in circles with this so I'll try another tactic.

Let's say the opener is your girlfriend or sister. Is what she did okay?
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If it were my girlfriend, I wouldn't care because she's now committed to me and not random guys. If it were my sister, I wouldn't care at all because it's her life to live and not mine. Either way, it doesn't really matter in the grand scheme of things.
 
Charles Darwin said:
If it were my girlfriend, I wouldn't care because she's now committed to me and not random guys. If it were my sister, I wouldn't care at all because it's her life to live and not mine.
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So you're saying that it is moral and righteous for your sister to make out with random guys.

Let's say your daughter instead.
 
iceman132 said:
So you're saying that it is moral and righteous for your sister to make out with random guys.

Let's say your daughter instead.
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I never said it was "moral" or "righteous". I said I wouldn't care enough to judge her if she decided to makeout with random guys.

And if it were my daughter, it would depend on how old she was. If she was an adult, I would be concerned but not enough to judge her. Now if she was 15-16 years old, that's a different story.
 
Charles Darwin said:
I never said it was "moral" or "righteous". I said I wouldn't care enough to judge her if she decided to makeout with random guys.

And if it were my daughter, it would depend on how old she was. If she was an adult, I would be concerned but not enough to judge her. Now if she was 15-16 years old, that's a different story.
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If it isn't moral and righteous than what is it.

Why are you concerned? Making out with random dudes is fine in your book, correct?
 
Gunners gonna gun?

MonkfishSushi said:
I just want to avoid any ethical issues if people find out.
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I don't quite see how advertising it on the largest med student forum is helping with that goal...

You're a consenting adult. Who happened to be a little drunk. Theoretically so was he. There is no ethical goal. You're allowed to have a personal life, so long as you don't bring it up during actual interviews.
 
iceman132 said:
You know what... We're just going to keep going around in circles with this so I'll try another tactic.

Let's say the opener is your girlfriend or sister. Is what she did okay?
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People make out and sometimes have .... sex. Shocker I know. Sometimes it's even just for a night, and then you never see the other person again. Make of it what you will.

I think it would help also OP if we could see your stats. It would definitely help us make a decision about how bad what you did is.
 
isoquin said:
Gunners gonna gun?


I don't quite see how advertising it on the largest med student forum is helping with that goal...
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She's an attention ***** or a troll
 
You say that as if it makes this thread less amusing.
 
ppfizenm said:
People make out and sometimes have .... sex. Shocker I know. Sometimes it's even just for a night, and then you never see the other person again. Make of it what you will.
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You're missing my entire point. Of course it happens. My argument isn't that it doesn't HAPPEN.

It's wrong and immoral and shouldn't be promoted.
 
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