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Yes, studylater, that's it. Dragons-out-of-context are inherently more offensive than tigers. That's what you got out of my posts. Congratulations. Jesus Christ.
Yes, studylater, that's it. Dragons-out-of-context are inherently more offensive than tigers. That's what you got out of my posts. Congratulations. Jesus Christ.
It can't be a racist comment, because tiger mothers are not exclusively Asian. Also, I've never seen this term as derogatory: quite the opposite. Your mother cares for your academic success and is willing to do anything to help you achieve your goals. How is this offensive, again?
And here's what you should have got out of mine: No one's making fun of your mom! I promise!
Just because a stereotype is positive doesn't mean it's a good thing, doggie. It's like saying all black kids are fast and athletic and good at sports, or all asians are good at math. You're still stereotyping a whole group of people, and arguably to their detriment. The subtext of LizzyM's statement is that the moms are so overbearing that the kids turn out to be academic geniuses with no social skills, much like the black people comment has an underlying subtext of the black kids are good at sports but are dumb.
At least, that's what my PC friends would say. I cant follow all this liberal nonsense sometimes.
This. One of my good friends is an Asian medical student and people automatically think he's smart. He is, but he is socially normal. People are surprised at this, and I'm sure it pisses him off. Likewise, I am Black and people are often taken aback when I contribute something intelligent. We all like to put people in boxes. Maybe it's easier to overlook them as human beings when we do that.Just because a stereotype is positive doesn't mean it's a good thing, doggie. It's like saying all black kids are fast and athletic and good at sports, or all asians are good at math. You're still stereotyping a whole group of people, and arguably to their detriment. The subtext of LizzyM's statement is that the moms are so overbearing that the kids turn out to be academic geniuses with no social skills, much like the black people comment has an underlying subtext of the black kids are good at sports but are dumb.
At least, that's what my PC friends would say. I cant follow all this liberal nonsense sometimes.
I'm actually shocked that I agree with @freemontie about the racial implications of the term "dragon mother/tiger mom". I mean, usually I find you quite bigoted but I can't be a hypocrite and say that those terms don't connotate a stereotype about East Asian upbringings, no matter how positive.
Still, I don't think LizzyM meant to offend, although it's not your intent that matters but the effect. "Dragon mother" or "tiger mom" is probably not a term that I or any non-Asian person should use so casually jokingly or not
Anyway
OP, your question was answered a long time ago - mind ya business. Go fill out your application. Take a final or something. Be productive.
I have to admit you have a lot more character than me. I actually do realize that I'm extremely self-serving for asian-american issues over other minorities.I'm actually shocked that I agree with @freemontie about the racial implications of the term "dragon mother/tiger mom". I mean, usually I find you quite bigoted but I can't be a hypocrite and say that those terms don't connotate a stereotype about East Asian upbringings, no matter how positive.
Still, I don't think LizzyM meant to offend, although it's not your intent that matters but the effect. "Dragon mother" or "tiger mom" is probably not a term that I or any non-Asian person should use so casually jokingly or not
Anyway
OP, your question was answered a long time ago - mind ya business. Go fill out your application. Take a final or something. Be productive.
I think you need to slow your roll. None of the adcoms reveal what school they represent and for very good reasons.I have to admit you have a lot more character than me. I actually do realize that I'm extremely self-serving for asian-american issues over other minorities.
I gave @LizzyM a chance to explain via PM privately but all she did was say that she has asian colleagues and thus can't possibly be biased in any way. I publicly wonder what medical school she represents. I assume she will attempt to hide it given her anti-asian posts.
Edit: I'm serious Lizzy: Please tell us so we know not to waste $ and time applying. tell us unless you are trying to hide it
I think you need to lay off Lizzy considering all she has done for the SDN community. She's tried to be professional and respectful, but something she said stroke a nerve...........AND now you are attempting to blackmail and threaten her. Oh boy.I have to admit you have a lot more character than me. I actually do realize that I'm extremely self-serving for asian-american issues over other minorities.
I gave @LizzyM a chance to explain via PM privately but all she did was say that she has asian colleagues and thus can't possibly be biased in any way. I publicly wonder what medical school she represents. I assume she will attempt to hide it given her anti-asian posts.
Edit: I'm serious Lizzy: Please tell us so we know not to waste $ and time applying. tell us unless you are trying to hide it
I am north African too and I am not an Arab. She could be a Coptic who is still keeping her true identity or a black Egyptian who also does not consider herself an Arab. She could also be an Amazigh from Siwa like I am. Or, she could be an Arab who is black. She could also just consider herself African American. How are we gonna tell which one is which, who decides?THE VAST MAJORITY OF Egyptians DEFINE THEMSELVES AS ARABS and ARABS AREN'T BLACK FOR AMCAS and ARE NOT UNDERREPRESENTED IN MEDICINE. This is directly from adcom members I know. I asked bc I am North African.
Your seeing "tons of black people who look white" has NOTHING to do with the question.
Each person is different and has the right to decided what to consider themselves.
🙂
You could snitch on her, but it won't stop her from being an A**hole. She will have to live with that for the rest of her life!I really don't know what to do. This girl I know has been lying about being African American for all of undergrad (I found this out because her name just got announced for the african american scholarships) and has been getting scholarships for it. Now for medical school, she is applying as African American when she is really Egyptian. The thing is, i'm afraid she might actually get away with it since she kind of looks dark skinned and has been getting away with it for all of college and been getting all these scholarships that should be going to actual African Americans. She brags about how white she is and how she only has white friends, and says very racially insensitive things. She only gets mediocre grades and a mediocre mcat (a 27) even though she comes from a privileged family so she doesn't have actual disadvantages like actual minorities but doesn't work hard because she knows she can still get in.
Should I snitch on her? idk what is the right thing to do. I feel like she is taking away a spot from someone who will actually contribute to their community.
Actually this contributor is spot on in addressing this problem - abuse of affirmative action. By ignoring it, it doesn't make the race problem America has go away, it perpetuates it. People start to believe what they want to avoid thinking about race differences and 'privileges' be it 'white privilege' or abuse of affirmative action 'privilege'. By ignoring it and MYOB you will probably believe stereotypes. By pushing aside the problem you are making a choice by saying its not important to you, and your probably have never been in a difficult situation with race. You most likely are white and went to school/grew up in a neighborhood that was predominantly white. Therefore when you myob you go back into your white-hole bubble world and everything is la-de-da.Mind your own business.
See I always thought afirmative action was to combat the jim crow laws that perpetuated until arguably mlk jr days, not to give immigrants the upperhand. Jeesh was I wrong. I know a family that struggles who were in the Eastern bloc and struggles to find work today, why not give that family an upperhand? I mean, if their son wanted to go to medical school where are the benefits and scholarships for being oppressed socioeconomically and socially due to a language barrier? these are the reasons AA sucks. yes, I just said that.Are you serious? Last time I checked Egypt is on the continent of Africa, it is an African country, and, therefore, she is African American. She is not cheating or lying about her ethnicity because that is how she may identify herself and rightfully so. I also hope you know that being racially insensitive and being priveleged is not exclusive to non - minorities. I don't know what was the purpose of stating that. Also, even if it was a situation where she was lying, mind your own business and worry about yourself.
This, and then asking ...American Indian and Alaska Native. A person having origins in any of the original peoples of North and South America (including Central America) and who maintains tribal affiliation or community attachment.
Shows obvious lack of knowledge about how tribes work. Canada has had a recurrent issues with tribal lineages, please read up on them. They are way better reported on and understood by Canadia than the US that doesn't care. Tribal law is confusing, unethical at times, and discriminatory. Mine for instance is a matriarchy. My father was of the tribe, but my mother was not. Hence, I am unable to register as a tribal member. Thus, you saying your origins in 1491 is completely idiotic. I don't exactly look European, I don't look NA, I don't look nothing, but I'm supposed to be "white" when I am subjected to racism by my own mother's side of the family because I can't claim a matriarchal lineage? Please check yourself. These definitions are unfair and hurtful to weirdos like me who dread the "race" side of any application.where were your people in 1491? what are the racial and ethnic origins with which you identify? "
This, and then asking ...
Shows obvious lack of knowledge about how tribes work. Canada has had a recurrent issues with tribal lineages, please read up on them. They are way better reported on and understood by Canadia than the US that doesn't care. Tribal law is confusing, unethical at times, and discriminatory. Mine for instance is a matriarchy. My father was of the tribe, but my mother was not. Hence, I am unable to register as a tribal member. Thus, you saying your origins in 1491 is completely idiotic. I don't exactly look European, I don't look NA, I don't look nothing, but I'm supposed to be "white" when I am subjected to racism by my own mother's side of the family because I can't claim a matriarchal lineage? Please check yourself. These definitions are unfair and hurtful to weirdos like me who dread the "race" side of any application.
This, and then asking ...
Shows obvious lack of knowledge about how tribes work. Canada has had a recurrent issues with tribal lineages, please read up on them. They are way better reported on and understood by Canadia than the US that doesn't care. Tribal law is confusing, unethical at times, and discriminatory. Mine for instance is a matriarchy. My father was of the tribe, but my mother was not. Hence, I am unable to register as a tribal member. Thus, you saying your origins in 1491 is completely idiotic. I don't exactly look European, I don't look NA, I don't look nothing, but I'm supposed to be "white" when I am subjected to racism by my own mother's side of the family because I can't claim a matriarchal lineage? Please check yourself. These definitions are unfair and hurtful to weirdos like me who dread the "race" side of any application.
This, and then asking ...
Shows obvious lack of knowledge about how tribes work. Canada has had a recurrent issues with tribal lineages, please read up on them. They are way better reported on and understood by Canadia than the US that doesn't care. Tribal law is confusing, unethical at times, and discriminatory. Mine for instance is a matriarchy. My father was of the tribe, but my mother was not. Hence, I am unable to register as a tribal member. Thus, you saying your origins in 1491 is completely idiotic. I don't exactly look European, I don't look NA, I don't look nothing, but I'm supposed to be "white" when I am subjected to racism by my own mother's side of the family because I can't claim a matriarchal lineage? Please check yourself. These definitions are unfair and hurtful to weirdos like me who dread the "race" side of any application.
The level of disrespect in this thread is crazy high.
I really don't know what to do. This girl I know has been lying about being African American for all of undergrad (I found this out because her name just got announced for the african american scholarships) and has been getting scholarships for it. Now for medical school, she is applying as African American when she is really Egyptian. The thing is, i'm afraid she might actually get away with it since she kind of looks dark skinned and has been getting away with it for all of college and been getting all these scholarships that should be going to actual African Americans. She brags about how white she is and how she only has white friends, and says very racially insensitive things. She only gets mediocre grades and a mediocre mcat (a 27) even though she comes from a privileged family so she doesn't have actual disadvantages like actual minorities but doesn't work hard because she knows she can still get in.
Should I snitch on her? idk what is the right thing to do. I feel like she is taking away a spot from someone who will actually contribute to their community.
You could snitch on her, but it won't stop her from being an A**hole. She will have to live with that for the rest of her life!
Actually this contributor is spot on in addressing this problem - abuse of affirmative action. By ignoring it, it doesn't make the race problem America has go away, it perpetuates it. People start to believe what they want to avoid thinking about race differences and 'privileges' be it 'white privilege' or abuse of affirmative action 'privilege'. By ignoring it and MYOB you will probably believe stereotypes. By pushing aside the problem you are making a choice by saying its not important to you, and your probably have never been in a difficult situation with race. You most likely are white and went to school/grew up in a neighborhood that was predominantly white. Therefore when you myob you go back into your white-hole bubble world and everything is la-de-da.
Seriously, read up on this topic before you want people to myob about something you clearly aren't aware of yourself.
Wow. I sure hope my future med school classmates aren't as thin-skinned and devoid of humor as some of the people posting in this thread.
Wow. I sure hope my future med school classmates aren't as thin-skinned and devoid of humor as some of the people posting in this thread.
Yes, studylater, that's it. Dragons-out-of-context are inherently more offensive than tigers. That's what you got out of my posts. Congratulations. Jesus Christ.
Um...
Hate to tell you this, but they are absolutely going to be more thin-skinned and devoid of humor than anything you see on SDN.
Have fun.
Gawd, so true! Some of my students are so thin-skinned that light passes right through them.
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Hmmm...one less loose cannon. What did montie do to get herself nailed by the banhammer??
Gawd, so true! Some of my students are so thin-skinned that light passes right through them.
Just because a stereotype is positive doesn't mean it's a good thing, doggie. It's like saying all black kids are fast and athletic and good at sports, or all asians are good at math. You're still stereotyping a whole group of people, and arguably to their detriment. The subtext of LizzyM's statement is that the moms are so overbearing that the kids turn out to be academic geniuses with no social skills, much like the black people comment has an underlying subtext of the black kids are good at sports but are dumb.
At least, that's what my PC friends would say. I cant follow all this liberal nonsense sometimes.
I'm Asian and am not offended by the terms Dragon Mother or Tiger Mother. I don't consider it racist and, as a child of immigrant parents, think of it as a positive. My mother could be described as a tiger mother when she was still here, and it would be an accurate description. I don't see any ill intent in LizzyM's posting. Sometimes a figure of speech is just a figure of speech. There's no need to be so sensitive about everything.
Wow. I sure hope my future med school classmates aren't as thin-skinned and devoid of humor as some of the people posting in this thread.
On another thread, someone said this actually makes one look worse to adcoms, so I'm not sure I would do this but it would make me feel better. Yes, I concur about it being the US census. That is the reason why I suggested learning about Canada. The US is uncomfortable and/or doesn't have the resources to understand tribal law and/or simply doesn't care and/or is horrified by the notion of a matriarchy (that was a joke, most of those jokes).MCAS let's you self-identify or you can "prefer not to answer". So
if everyone myob all the time, there would never be any change (referring to social change and civil action Not Hipaa mmm K?). Didn't you learn to question anything as an UG?That's sound advice most of the time.
Ah the good old Dunning-Kruger effect suffered by entitled premeds. From pretending to know everything about medicine to insulting adcoms.
😍Same here. I thought Dragon Mother was a fairly offensive term and it was certainly directed towards Asians. @freemontie is wrong about basically everything but he is right to be offended by it in my opinion.
I am actually fairly disappointed at the casual racism Asians face on this forum and elsewhere; it may not be as directed and violent as other forms of racism we see every day but it is wrong nevertheless.
So I've defended URM admission policies in basically every thread they have been discussed in but I can understand the anxiety that exists against it.
1) the policies are completely reactionary and as a result...
2) it is very difficult to come up with an a priori argument as to why they should exist or be correct to begin with but...
3) the licensing body has reason to believe the policies are effective at achieving the goal they were set out for.
4) However, there is a confusion on this forum (and in the profession in general) on how the incentives and motivations of medical schools, medical students, applicants, the medical profession and the AAMC align.
So what do we have? We have a problem where different groups of people are arguing for an against something which depends on the well defined and synergetic relationship between all five of those groups. A good argument for URM policies should first try to explain what this is.
A) SDN members have essentially defined the AAMC incentives perfectly: to better represent and serve patient populations through representation in the profession in forms not limited to and including SES, race, gender, sexuality, etc. The problem here is that I doubt there is a convincing a priori argument as to why this incentive should exist but the a posteriori defense concerning the evidence of the effects of these policies on the profession and on medical student / physician education are fairly convincing. The problem is again tha effective or not, anyone claiming to have a problem with these policies has legitimate claims given that one cannot show these claims are "good" from first principles alone the same way that one can show that racism is "bad". I think the argument that these policies are racist is garbage though but I'm not going to waste any energy explaining why since I have elsewhere. That being said, claims against URM policies are certainly legitimate insofar as they deserve a better counter argument than ones that currently exist.
B) As far as medical schools are concerned the incentives are harder to pin down. Because they are subject to a legislative body it is unlikely that any arguments in defense of URM policies from the standpoint of medical admissions holds up to a critical stance since there is a very high likelihood of misinterpreting or molding the legislative body's incentives described in A in order to fit some other goal. From the point of education the experience of race (which I have previously described as being inherent to the condition of humanity in this and every society thus far) is certainly educational and - in my opinion - necessary. Here, I actually think it is quite clear that a priori URM policies are actually "good" or at the very least "valid" in a consistent way. I provide no argument for this as I have already done so elsewhere. I do not believe it is prudent for anyone to include anything even remotely racial, joking, derogatory, sarcastic, or condescending in an argument about something as sensitive as race. Truth be told, one should not include those things in any argument if one wishes to be convincing. The argument that goes like "my argument is good you just don't get it you idiot" is worthless. Arguments should be clear and precise and the aforementioned list serves to obfuscate rather than clarify your position. I say this with the utmost respect but there should be some due deference to the people who are clearly upset - rightly or wrongly - at the implications these policies have for them and others and every effort should be made to communicate politely and directly in these arguments (a principle I am guilty of frequently violating myself, admittedly).
C) Applicants. This is the hardest group to nail down because everyone is so different and has conflicting views of A and B. Before we can even begin to talk about C every member of C should clearly understand and agree on terms for A and B and that is impossible.
Thus, I conclude that URM arguments on this board are futile until the terms I have delineated here have been convincingly and clearly defined by one or multiple legitimate bodies and everyone agrees to follow those terms. It may be the case that legitimate bodies have a clear picture of these terms but we don't all certainly agree. Perhaps we need a sticky of "here is what these words mean" for every URM thread on this forum. So these can at least be more civil and productive and less circular. I recommend as an alternative to the URM debate: Anime.
That is the reason why I suggested learning about Canada. The US is uncomfortable and/or doesn't have the resources to understand tribal law and/or simply doesn't care and/or is horrified by the notion of a matriarchy (that was a joke, most of those jokes).
@Bookworm36 what are you even talking about?
Anyway, freemontie is banned?
Ding dong the witch is dead!
I honestly was way more frustrated with the URM situation until I saw the raw data for practicing in poverty etc. broken down by race. People can change their mind about issues even if it is emotionally intense. Does anyone know if there is data for people of lower SES returning to practice in underserved areas?
I think these kinds of threads can be productive and lead to meaningful discussions. There are a lot of generalizations thrown out from both sides of the debate but, if you dig through the rubbish, you can often learn something.
Do you have a link to these studies you've seen. Did they break down the outcomes by African American, African, or Carribean? Also did they factor in the HBCU's and Puerto Rican medical school graduates which, due to the importance of their missions, may skew the outcome data. Did the studies also track step 1 scores? It could be possible that, given the lower standard of admission, many benefactors of affirmative action could be relegated to primary care in underserved areas due to low test scores but may have otherwise made a different choice.
https://www.aamc.org/download/401814/data/aug2014aibpart2.pdf 30% more likely to practice in poverty. 20% more likely to practice in primary care. ~40
Asians seem to be the reverse, much less likely to practice in primary care. Interesting.
Also: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/22708247/
I'm not even sure anymore....yours & @Tired's comments got me up in stitches.@Bookworm36 what are you even talking about?
Anyway, freemontie is banned?
Ding dong the witch is dead!