Your friends probably have more issues than using a headshot on a dating app. With the success rate I’ve had, you’d be crazy to not use it. It works, actually works quite well
Grindr is a much better app than tinder. It’s a shame it’s only for the gay community. I downloaded it once out of curiosity for a day and I kid you not I had over 200 unsolicited messages in the first day and I’m not in a large city. With tinder getting matches with the girls I like is pretty tough.