I'm sorry, but I think we are suffering from a language barrier (and my overuse of ...) What I said was that I knew one person who didn't not match (Not you! I know someone local to me!) then I continued to say I wondered how you were doing, because I knew you were very concerned, and that I HOPED that YOU matched!
Do you see now? I truly intended no offense. I was making a statement about a person I knew, then continuing, mentioned your name because I knew you were always very concerned about matching, and hoped that you either matched or got an offer outside the match...
Does that make sense now? Sorry to have inadvertently caused you shock...
I was making two different statements talking about two different people.
BH