oh yes,i've been called cheap, i prefer 'frugal', but some of those things drive me crazy. like the airline stuff--don't get me started. on atm fees....sure, it's only a couple $ here or there, but it does add up.
i'm actually trying to shop for a new bank for checking now since i'm moving states. i'm looking at TD banknorth for basic/free non-interest bearing checking b/c they have no ATM fees and will refund those charged by other banks. unlimited, no monthly fee. only thing is they will have no atms or branches near where i will live and work, but my other option is the local bank whose atm is located in the hospital and i'm not too hot on them.