or very stressed. I'm dating & living with a 3rd year med student. He's a very easy-going person and handles stress relatively well. (i.e. Didn't freak out in preparing for MCAT or Step 1). But, the long hours at the hospital is finally taking a toll on him. He can hardly stay awake past 8 p.m., complains about back pains (he's only 28!), and has pretty much lost all interest in sex. What I am having difficulty coping with is that I had expected him to go through this by the time he hits internship/residency, not during his rotation in med school. I have no intention of breaking up with him, so I would really appreciate some words of advice as to how to be supportive of him without losing my patience or sanity. (BTW, I've suggested that perhaps he should see a therapist for depression and a chiropractor for back pains, but he totally dismisses my advice b/c he *knows* there's nothing they can do for him. For someone who studies medicine, he has very little faith in what doctors can do for him.)