Long hours, see too many patients, never get out on time, no overtime pay, unpredictable schedule, very disorganized, unprofessional, shady things going on, manipulation, lies, dishonesty, etc...too much BS to write lol
Well, it doesn't sound like you have found a good situation, but I'll add some commentary.
Dentists are exempt which means we don't qualify for overtime (at least in CA where I practice).
Most dentists are paid a percentage of collections. Some dentists are paid a base salary + a percentage of adjusted production or collections. If you are just paid hourly or salaried, you should probably work for a good FQHC where you get great benefits.
Since our compensation is depends on doing dentistry, it's not uncommon for us to skip lunch and stay late in order to meet our own goals. That does not mean missing lunch and staying late should be routine, but the reality is that if you are not producing dentistry, your compensation should reflect your collections.
If you have to leave the office at a certain time every day because of other obligations, you should discuss that with your employer.
Most associateships fall short of the associate dentist's expectations, and that's why they typically only last 12-24 months before one of the parties decides to move on to something else.
I went through 2 associateships quickly when I graduated in 2015. One lasted 3 weeks, another 6 months. I pulled the plug on both of them without having a position lined up, and that's what I recommend if you have some savings to support yourself during the transition (if you're going to look for something new, I think it is best to put 100% of your time and effort into finding a better situation for you and your family unless you can cut back to 1 or 2 days at your current position).
Regarding patients per day - the volume of patients you see per day depends on the type of practice you're in. How many do you see now, and when did you graduate?