I've been frequenting this and other premed boards and have begun to post here on a consistent basis. One of the most common posts is the perceived "hoarding" of acceptances by other people who will be going to med school. The post by "gower" is typical of the frustration that is expressed in these messages.
I, myself, withdrew pending applications, wait-lists, and interviews when I got into my first choice med school. However, you can't blame those who hold all of their acceptances until the May 15th deadline. Sure, other folks with not as good grades oo MCAT scores or extracurriculars may have to sweat it out until the very end, with some getting the acceptance call on the first day of orientation.
Gower, let me ask you this question. If you had four to five months to choose where you will live, get educated and develop into the professional of your choice, would you take it? Consider the fact how hard you worked in college, what you went through during the application and interviewing process, and how much you invested, both from a personal and financial standpoint, don't you think you DESERVE to have as much time as GIVEN BY AAMC to make possibly the MOST important decision of your life to that point?
As for your friend who went on that interview with no intent to go to that school, well, there will always be people like that to spoil the batch. However, while some people may have gotten in to their first choice med school before taking all interviews, it stands to reason that perhaps their initial first choice may not turn out to be their first choice after they take all of their interviews. It happened to me; I was waitlisted at my first choice when I decided to interview at the school I will eventually go to. After my interview, I fell in love with the school and when i got my acceptance letter, I eventually withdrew from the wait-list from my "first" first-choice.
Some people will have to ask themselves plenty of questions, and it may take weeks to months to answer. A person may have gotten into his first choice school, but it may be thousands of miles away and could end up costing him well over $150,000 after all is said and done. "Do I want to be that far away from my family afterall?"..."Do I want to spend that much money on my education?"..."Can I strike it out on my own?"
Just go out and ask people who got into their first choice and see how many of those decided against it in the long run after thinking about it.
I can relate to those who have to sweat it out till the last minute. But hey, if it's meant to be, it's meant to be. If anything, those who do get that acceptance letter late in the game probably appreciate it more than those who get in early and end up working a little harder in med school...maybe, I don't know. All of that built up frustration turns into joyous enthusiasm and exhilaration when it does happen. Remember, just because one person gets accepted into 5 med schools, it doesn't mean there are 4 less spots for others. And for those who still can't decide where to go after May 15th, they lose quite a bit in deposit money.