More of an inference question, which would be more stable: CH3O- and NH3, or NaNH 1- and CH3OH2 +? Oxygen can stabilize the negative charge and is more electronegative, and ammonia is formed which is stable (also recall that you really only see ammonia and ammonium acid base rxns and rarely sodium amide). Oxygen has low affinity for and is unstable with + charge, N is unable to accommodate essentially a -2 charge.
Alcohols are typically always weakly acidic.
If you see an anionic salt as a reactant in an acid/base rxn, it's more than safe to assume it is the base.