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This is not going to be a typical pre-med post (i.e. omg I have a 4.0 and 40 MCAT will I get in anywhere????). This is something that has caused me many a sleepless night and caused me not to enjoy my senior year of college so far.
So I have an issue. I've been dating a girl for the past 3.5 years, and I love her to death. We get along so well, and I can't seem myself continuing the next step (medical school and life in general) without her. We met on the very first day of classes and have been dating ever since.
That being said, there is a problem. She and I are both pre-med, both with decent/above average stats (32 on MCAT for me, 35 for her, good GPA, etc.), and we've both been accepted to med school. We applied broadly, with most of our schools being the same. She's a New Jersey resident, and has gotten into both Jersey schools and Drexel; I am a Florida resident who's gotten into UF and New York Medical College. That being said, our top choice so far has been the Philly schools (which haven't shown me any love) and UMiami (which both of us haven't heard a peep from after submitting our apps back in August).
So I'm asking for your advice. I would do anything to be with her (go into more debt by going OOS to Philly, etc.) and I'm not interested in a competitive specialty. Here's my question to you: Is there anything I can do at this point? Writing a letter to schools of mutual interest explaining the situation? Asking my pre-med advisor to send an email to somebody?
I am beyond myself right now. I can't imagine myself with anyone else because she just makes me so happy. If anybody can provide some insight, I am most anxious to hear it. If there's no hope, please let me know so I don't get unrealistic expectations.
If you've made it this far, thank you for taking the time to read this. I appreciate your time.
So I have an issue. I've been dating a girl for the past 3.5 years, and I love her to death. We get along so well, and I can't seem myself continuing the next step (medical school and life in general) without her. We met on the very first day of classes and have been dating ever since.
That being said, there is a problem. She and I are both pre-med, both with decent/above average stats (32 on MCAT for me, 35 for her, good GPA, etc.), and we've both been accepted to med school. We applied broadly, with most of our schools being the same. She's a New Jersey resident, and has gotten into both Jersey schools and Drexel; I am a Florida resident who's gotten into UF and New York Medical College. That being said, our top choice so far has been the Philly schools (which haven't shown me any love) and UMiami (which both of us haven't heard a peep from after submitting our apps back in August).
So I'm asking for your advice. I would do anything to be with her (go into more debt by going OOS to Philly, etc.) and I'm not interested in a competitive specialty. Here's my question to you: Is there anything I can do at this point? Writing a letter to schools of mutual interest explaining the situation? Asking my pre-med advisor to send an email to somebody?
I am beyond myself right now. I can't imagine myself with anyone else because she just makes me so happy. If anybody can provide some insight, I am most anxious to hear it. If there's no hope, please let me know so I don't get unrealistic expectations.
If you've made it this far, thank you for taking the time to read this. I appreciate your time.