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Hello SDN,
After rehashing and asking everyone I knew for advice, I finally decided it was in my best interests to ask advice to the experts, those that have been through the entire process of medical school apps.
Alright I know some people have posted something similar but my situation is a little different. I am a junior in undergrad majoring in sociology and my gpa is so low, so low that I am so ashamed to say it, and actually am so ashamed to talk about it at all, but to get the best advice, I must be honest. My cumulative gpa so far is 1.85, last semester was a good one because I was able to pull it up from a 1.65 to a 1.85. I didn't know I was interested in medical school until last year when i realized i almost had no chance of getting in. So you might be wondering why my gpa is so low, well i ve been having a lot of issues in my life and it is so unfortunate. I was a victim of porn addiction and I couldn;t do anything else in my life but think and watch porn. It was so hard for me to do anything else, at first i wanted to seek help but I was so ashamed my family and friends would think something is wrong with me. So I never really addressed the problem until last year when I developed my interest in medicine. Now am not even dreaming of US medical schools, am just looking at the caribbeans med schools. But the other problem is how do i explain my poor grades to the adcoms? how am i supposed to talk about this addiction and what should i do to improve? I just have one year left but I think i ll stay for 2 more years to do the pre-reqs and maybe get a minor. But even after all that i still doubt that I will be able to make it to a 3.0 by the time i graduate since i have 102 credits now with a 1.85 gpa.
Any helping advice will be appreciated and please don't criticize because I already feel so terrible about myself please don t make it worse.

Thank you
 
Either you're trolling hard, or your life kinda sucks.

This sounds like a long shot, but try for grad school in a science area for a few years. That would boost your sGPA, which I expect to be around your cGPA.
 
so you developed your interest in medicine by watching porn?
if you're not a troll: is it still a problem?
 
Hello SDN,
After rehashing and asking everyone I knew for advice, I finally decided it was in my best interests to ask advice to the experts, those that have been through the entire process of medical school apps.
Alright I know some people have posted something similar but my situation is a little different. I am a junior in undergrad majoring in sociology and my gpa is so low, so low that I am so ashamed to say it, and actually am so ashamed to talk about it at all, but to get the best advice, I must be honest. My cumulative gpa so far is 1.85, last semester was a good one because I was able to pull it up from a 1.65 to a 1.85. I didn't know I was interested in medical school until last year when i realized i almost had no chance of getting in. So you might be wondering why my gpa is so low, well i ve been having a lot of issues in my life and it is so unfortunate. I was a victim of porn addiction and I couldn;t do anything else in my life but think and watch porn. It was so hard for me to do anything else, at first i wanted to seek help but I was so ashamed my family and friends would think something is wrong with me. So I never really addressed the problem until last year when I developed my interest in medicine. Now am not even dreaming of US medical schools, am just looking at the caribbeans med schools. But the other problem is how do i explain my poor grades to the adcoms? how am i supposed to talk about this addiction and what should i do to improve? I just have one year left but I think i ll stay for 2 more years to do the pre-reqs and maybe get a minor. But even after all that i still doubt that I will be able to make it to a 3.0 by the time i graduate since i have 102 credits now with a 1.85 gpa.
Any helping advice will be appreciated and please don't criticize because I already feel so terrible about myself please don t make it worse.

Thank you


There is no way this is real.

If it is... take a strong look at the DO grade replacement policy. They could use an x-porn addict.
 
so you developed your interest in medicine by watching porn?
if you're not a troll: is it still a problem?

I am still struggling with it but it is not as bad as it used to. Now I can watch porn 2 hours a day compared to 6 to 8 hours a day before, and now I can focus on something compared to before when I pretty much couldn't focus on anything. I am getting a lot of help from family and friends so am definitely making a lot of progress. I decided I wanted to pursue medicine last year when we all had to go to a seminar on cancer for one of my classes.
 
I am still struggling with it but it is not as bad as it used to. Now I can watch porn 2 hours a day compared to 6 to 8 hours a day before, and now I can focus on something compared to before when I pretty much couldn't focus on anything. I am getting a lot of help from family and friends so am definitely making a lot of progress. I decided I wanted to pursue medicine last year when we all had to go to a seminar on cancer for one of my classes.

find a gf and problem solved. instead of watching porn.. you can finally partake
 
What about taking my pre reqs at another school? then i will get a brand new gpa, I was thinking maybe I could complete my sociology major here at my school and then maybe go to another school to complete my pre reqs and get a brand new gpa?
any thoughts?
 
Btw, as someone said before, take advantage of DO grade replacement. You could probably boost your gpa to 3.0+
 
What about taking my pre reqs at another school? then i will get a brand new gpa, I was thinking maybe I could complete my sociology major here at my school and then maybe go to another school to complete my pre reqs and get a brand new gpa?
any thoughts?

you don't get a brand new gpa.
 
find a gf and problem solved. instead of watching porn.. you can finally partake

Am a girl and I have always had a bf but i have always been so addicted to sex regardless, but my therapist told me it s psychological.
 
Well, your chances of graduating are slim to nonexistant, so I wouldn't worry about medical school. You are in the D range, which most schools would have terminated your enrollment after two semesters of poor grades.

Some schools will not even let you graduate if you have lower than a 2.70. You have to take filler classes to bring it up.
 
how so? Would the grade replacement policy not give him a chance at a degree in medicine?

How does DO grade replacement work? Do you have to take the exact same course at the same school, or can you just replace courses with a different course from a different school? Like for somebody who is in grad school at a different place than their undergrad.
 
Well, your chances of graduating are slim to nonexistant, so I wouldn't worry about medical school. You are in the D range, which most schools would have terminated your enrollment after two semesters of poor grades.

Some schools will not even let you graduate if you have lower than a 2.70. You have to take filler classes to bring it up.

I might not be super smart but if I have a 4.0 my last 4 semesters I could graduate with a 2.7, which is above what i need to graduate, the minimum at my school is 2.5. But I heard that caribbean med schools take lower gpa, and like some pple suggested maybe i can retake most of the courses I failed which i will probably have to do to graduate, it is truly gonna be a true and hard recovery, but am hoping maybe the caribbean med schools will understand
 
In my opinion, you should take some time off and get full control of your addiction and life. I think that while 2 hrs a day is a nice step up from 6-8 hours a day you still need to work on fixing it more in order to move on and give yourself the best chance to get into medical school. What if you take a heavy science course load and the stress triggers you to start to spend 6-8 hours a day watching porn again? I'm not an expert on addictions, but it seems like that might be a big risk. Get more healthy first then worry about medical school later, the classes and unfortunately your GPA will always be there. Hope is not lost and don't be ashamed of your GPA, it is what it is. Just recognize how destructive your addiction can be and make it top priority to address it even more.
 
How does DO grade replacement work? Do you have to take the exact same course at the same school, or can you just replace courses with a different course from a different school? Like for somebody who is in grad school at a different place than their undergrad.


Its actually very loose

As long as the courses are arguable the same -- The second attempt is used and the first attempt is completely forgotten.

It still appears on the transcript (I believe) -- but does not influence the calculated GPAs.

If the course has a similar name and similar credit hours -- I don't see why It wouldn't. DO school use grad GPA in their gpa calculations.
 
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