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Right now, I am so depressed.
Let me start by saying that I am extremely happy that I have been accepted into ICO. Of course I am. I've loved it forever. I have 28 days to put down my deposit (which by the way will put me into the po' house. This is one level below the poor house, since I can't afford the extra two letters.) I have to wait till my paycheck comes.
Also, I really enjoyed NEWENCO. I loved Boston. There are two problems with the whole Boston situation though:
(1)Good grief, I can't believe how much NEWENCO costs. And I thought ICO was expensive.
(2)My husband, absolutely, flat out refuses to go any where near Boston, quote "It holds no allure for him." Grr.. Well it does for me.
What annoys me more, is that he's said much the same about Chicago. He'll "consider" moving to Milwaukee or some such place but says that the job market is too bad to get a job in Chicago. In all truthfulness, I think he just doesn't want to move anywhere (he's lived in the same place his whole life). Of course this is just my POV. I mean, I know that I shouldn't expect him to follow me around like a puppy. I'm just starting to feel like he expects ME to stay in his small conservative everybody knows your name hometown and cook things for him. It's not like this is news that I'd be moving either--he's known my dreams since he met me.
I love him very much and he loves me very much. We have an incredible relationship and we are the best of friends. I don't know what to do. I know he has valid reasons for what he's saying even though I can't see them from my pov. This is tearing me up inside. Right now, I can't even study for my micro test (on Wednesday). All I can do is cry. I can't lose him, but I can't lose myself either. And what if I was meant to go to Boston? What if I miss the best opportunity of my life?
I am so confused, sad and angry. Why must everything be so hard?
Eyegirl
Let me start by saying that I am extremely happy that I have been accepted into ICO. Of course I am. I've loved it forever. I have 28 days to put down my deposit (which by the way will put me into the po' house. This is one level below the poor house, since I can't afford the extra two letters.) I have to wait till my paycheck comes.
Also, I really enjoyed NEWENCO. I loved Boston. There are two problems with the whole Boston situation though:
(1)Good grief, I can't believe how much NEWENCO costs. And I thought ICO was expensive.
(2)My husband, absolutely, flat out refuses to go any where near Boston, quote "It holds no allure for him." Grr.. Well it does for me.
What annoys me more, is that he's said much the same about Chicago. He'll "consider" moving to Milwaukee or some such place but says that the job market is too bad to get a job in Chicago. In all truthfulness, I think he just doesn't want to move anywhere (he's lived in the same place his whole life). Of course this is just my POV. I mean, I know that I shouldn't expect him to follow me around like a puppy. I'm just starting to feel like he expects ME to stay in his small conservative everybody knows your name hometown and cook things for him. It's not like this is news that I'd be moving either--he's known my dreams since he met me.
I love him very much and he loves me very much. We have an incredible relationship and we are the best of friends. I don't know what to do. I know he has valid reasons for what he's saying even though I can't see them from my pov. This is tearing me up inside. Right now, I can't even study for my micro test (on Wednesday). All I can do is cry. I can't lose him, but I can't lose myself either. And what if I was meant to go to Boston? What if I miss the best opportunity of my life?
I am so confused, sad and angry. Why must everything be so hard?
Eyegirl