My pets are well cared for and as such only visit a vet as a last resort and those visits rarely end well usually due to the age of the animals.
I'm probably an odd one in most respects. To me, being a pet owner is a contract. The pet is my responsibility. I love my guys. Money is no object to me for care, and though I hate it when they become sick, each one is a learning experience and I will do whatever is necessary if the animal has the chance to become healthy again.
Which is it? Visiting a vet as a last resort is NEVER a good idea. You visit as a first resort if you are responsible with the pet. I don't know why people think waiting longer and longer and longer and then going "well coming here was my last resort" is a good idea. Geeze, thanks, now something I could have fixed 3 days, 3 weeks or 3 months ago fairly "easily" becomes something that may not be fixable....hence why your "visits rarely end well". You are contradicting yourself.
Also, the "money is no object".... as vets we hear that daily. Every day. All day long. Not from every client. But the clients we do hear it from..... it means they aren't paying or they don't have money. 100% of the time. The number of times I tell a client that I will get them a treatment plan with an estimate for care and they go "oh no, I don't need that, money isn't a concern, do whatever". It means they REALLY NEED that estimate. 100% of these people that didn't "need" an estimate because "money isn't a concern" end up leaving doing very minimal or doing nothing.
Most of my pets simply die of old age as they tend to live well past their "documented expiration dates" which I'm very grateful for.
No one dies of "old age". Nothing. As we age, things "fail" but we don't die of age. We die of heart failure, renal disease, cancer, etc. Sure, there isn't much we can do to treat some of the things that creep up in animals of all species as they age, but sure would benefit to visit a vet and be sure there aren't things we can do. I can keep most chronic renal failure cats going for 3-6+ years after diagnosis. There are things we can do for certain "old age" diseases that still allow good quality of life, depending on the disease and the patient.
Fortunately as a pharmacist I'm able to compound medications to appropriate doses. OTC Baytril for birds has been helpful on many occasions. Even saved a juvenile bearded from a bout of "Yellow Fungus" which many say cannot be cured.
Ah, this explains a lot. The I am going to medicate my animals myself at home and then if it doesn't help I will go to the vet. This makes our job harder, just so you know. Luckily, treating your own pet isn't illegal (yet), but if you do this to other people's pets and then give those pets back to people ..... that is illegal you are then practicing veterinary medicine without a license. So be cautious with what you "treat" at home. And just go to the damn vet at the first sign something is going on.... maybe then less of those visits wouldn't end well....
Here is a link to finding an exotic specialist..... hopefully there is one nearby you...
Find an ABVP Specialist | American Board of Veterinary Practitioners