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sucks, so what are you gonna do? keep grinding or drop the class?
sucks, so what are you gonna do? keep grinding or drop the class?
lol may as well have been reading chinese
Drop it and redo it. It won't be offered until Spring 2011, but oh well. What can you do? There's always some kind of kind in the works when I set out to do something.
You will make it. I'm not sure that your problems are academic related. Splitting with your wife and losing your job at the beginning of the semester was not conducive to learning.
Hold on, man, things will get better.
But that's the thing.. it WASN'T needed. I don't need a definition of the word "honesty". What I was trying to do is explaining that if you sugarcoat everything to the last word, then a person might think he has a chance that he really doesn't. This isn't like deciding whether or not you should buy tickets for a concert. This is medical school. He wanted to know if he was wasting his time, and wanted honesty. We gave him that. We told him exactly what his outlook was.
Being a cheerleader is not going to do anything. Yes, being supportive is great, but going through this whole Barney "You can do anything!" bull**** is not going to get anyone anywhere. If there is an issue, it has to be dealt with, not hidden under bubblegum and clichéd motivational statements.
Only when you don't like hearing things that factually contradict you.
EdLongshanks, stop being a poser. You are not the dean of admissions.
Arkansas,
I would suggest taking a step away from pre-med to work on your math skills before you spend more time/money on these courses. The same way you wouldn't be prepared for med school without your pre-med foundation, you aren't prepared for pre-med without a basic foundation in math.
Math will come back in med school. You will have basic biostats & pharmacology calculations. They are simple, but I probably would consider them a step more complex than what you get in chemistry.
Although it might not seem like it now, if you actually wait until you "get" the math part, you will probably save yourself time in the long run because you will have less W's, or poor grades to compensate for.
Have either of ArkansasRanger or gunito tried talking with the professor about people willing to tutor you? Putting a classified ad in the local *whatever* may not be the best option. There are people in these classes who are getting As, and the prof can talk to them about helping you. Additionally, the prof likely knows some of the Chem majors who've taken it before who are likely good at this and could help you. Some of them will do it for free, some may want $$ or some beer, or cookies, whatever... After scanning these posts, I didn't see anything about talking with the prof for help (although I could have missed it). I used to be a chem major, and we used to tutor a ton of people for O-Chem, and gen chem. The profs would call us (before email) and say can you come tutor this person... We'd work something out... Just a thought... I have failed classes, mainly because I refuse to give up... but when I did, I retook for an A because I was in the prof's office all the time asking questions.
gunito, you don't say how many credits you have at the 2.5 GPA you have, this is a huge factor in me making any opinions about you wasting your time. If you have 25 credits at a 2.5, that's not so bad and is totally fixable. If, on the other hand, you have 150, we have a serious problem, as it will take 75 credits at a 4.0 just to get you to a 3.0 and 101 credits at 4.0 to get you to a 3.1, and a 3.2 would be more than 120 credits at 4.0 work.
If you are certain you want to do this, don't give in, just work smarter... Find a way, that's the thing with medicine, problem solving... you have to find a way that works for you! Best of luck
Yeah, I've already dropped it and am now awaiting my refund check. I've found all the successful students in the class are just coming out of AP high school chemistry. I'd wager about half of them have already taken calculus I, and my college algebra course, which I took twice (F then mercy A) lol, was a decade ago. I didn't even have regular chemistry in H.S. In fact, we didn't have anything AP. Most of them graduated in 2008.
The teacher doesn't give a rat's ass about helping. That's obvious from the outset of class. I didn't talk to him nor did I want to, and besides that when he gets asked a question he sort of stares with a dear in the headlights look and routinely says "What are you not getting here?" I don't understand why he'd be like that since his doctorate is fairly recent which to me suggests he ought to be an eager beaver teacher. When I was in college (grad 2003) he taught there and didn't have the old PhD sheepskin.
Everyone in there was teaching themselves through the first chem I and into the chem II. I could tell the AP kids were getting more bogged down here in the second part of the course, and their daily quiz scores were down a few points. I wish them the best though.
I'll retake it at a community college. Will it be easier? I don't care. Will it "look bad?" I don't care. The same guy always teaches this course, and I'd just assume not try to teach it to myself again.
meh, sounds like a lot of excuses to be honest, but whatever. I think you're going to find that its not much easier at community college. you're also not setting the best precedent by looking for an easier place to take it. its pretty pathetic actually. how are you gonna get through med school with that mentality?
everyone deals with lousy professors. its part of life. the fact that you're a nontrad with some life experience yet still have all these excuses, especially about the professor being bad and the other kids having taken calculus (who gives a damn?), makes me question your maturity. your post honestly sounds like some back of the room griping I'd hear from freshmen.
sorry, my post probably pissed you off. just giving you my honest opinion though. have a nice night.
It may be, depending on your state community college system. Here, CCs are teach the same material as 4 year unis, same books, same level of difficulty. I took chem 1 at a 4 year and i was probably easier than at CC, except i didnt pay attention...which doesnt make sense. The only good thing is that the labs arent seperate grades which should help, maybe, most likely.
I've stuck with it, but I just can't figure it out despite class, the book, practice problems, supplemental texts. Now, with a little focus and some adequate proctoring maybe I can do it.
The teacher doesn't give a rat's ass about helping. That's obvious from the outset of class. I didn't talk to him nor did I want to, and besides that when he gets asked a question he sort of stares with a dear in the headlights look and routinely says "What are you not getting here?"
I'll retake it at a community college. Will it be easier? I don't care. Will it "look bad?" I don't care. The same guy always teaches this course, and I'd just assume not try to teach it to myself again.
I'm also taking community college classes. And while there are some walk-in-the-park classes, there are walk-in-the-park classes at 4-year universities. If the course you're taking is science and transferable to a 4-year institution, you will not have an easier time with it. I'm currently taking a community college class. The same professor is currently teaching the same class at the 4-year with the exact same curriculum. So far the only difference is that in the community college more students have dropped. The material and everything else is exactly the same.I also kind of resent the notion that taking it a community college is going to make it so much easier, being as that's where I'm doing my prerequisites and don't find classes to be a walk in the park by any means.
Ahhh, you didn't want to ask that mwean old pwofwessa for help? Poor baby, its ok.
You take these forum boards too seriously. I've noticed older people that didn't grow up with the internet try to treat it as an extension of job environments.That's totally unprofessional, and, frankly, just mean.
You take these forum boards too seriously. I've noticed older people that didn't grow up with the internet try to treat it as an extension of job environments.
Totally lame. You only have your choice of ONE teacher for general chemistry?
Ahhh, you didn't want to ask that mwean old pwofwessa for help? Poor baby, its ok.
Accept some responsibility for yourself. You didn't blow the class because of your professor or b/c the other kids were more prepared than you, you blew it b/c YOU failed to learn the material. Stop wasting all this time trying to hold other people accountable for something that falls solely on you. I would never let someone with this lame attitude into my imaginary medical school.
zinggggg.....If you keep up this "lame attitude" toward people who could use some encouragement and compassion instead of insults, "imaginary medical school" may turn out to be the only one you're going to graduate from. Get a freaking life.
zinggggg.....
I'm giving him what I think is HELPFUL advice. Sometimes I think people benefit more from a blunt opinion. It is my hope that he succeeds.
The magical "should." I've noticed this type of thinking all over the place, not just pre-med. People seem to love to tell you how to lead your life, which usually involves either some romanticized version of reality or submitting other people to their agenda. For the weak, it usually accomplishes to damage their self-esteem more and submit to group mentality. For the strong, it promotes two-faced behavior, since they will continue to be the way they are but give the public another image.By gum, these youngsters now days. I'd reply but my geritol spilled on my keyboard.
ArkansasRanger is having a difficult very difficult time and turned to this board for help. Beating up on him that way is wrong. It's mean and it's a violation of the compassionate nature that people who want to be healers should have.
The magical "should." I've noticed this type of thinking all over the place, not just pre-med. People seem to love to tell you how to lead your life, which usually involves either some romanticized version of reality or submitting other people to their agenda. For the weak, it usually accomplishes to damage their self-esteem more and submit to group mentality. For the strong, it promotes two-faced behavior, since they will continue to be the way they are but give the public another image.
Remember, everyone knows what's best for you, except yourself.
I believe a physician could be competent through different motives. For example, he might enjoy critical thinking and solving problems. Second example, if he had a strong sense of job duties (i.e. he believed he created a contract with his patient and believes in delivering the best care due to contractual obligation), he may deliver equal or better quality to a physician that's lovy dovey. I believe a physician that's a complete ******* to colleagues and random people may be compassionate and caring with patients because he categorizes them differently. Etc. So in conclusion, yes, I don't believe a compassionate nature or even an all encompassing one where they act "professional" to other forum members must exist to be a good, or even the best, doctor.I don't totally understand you, are you really saying that physicians don't need to have a compassionate nature? That wouldn't make sense.
I believe a physician could be competent through different motives. For example, he might enjoy critical thinking and solving problems. Second example, if he had a strong sense of job duties (i.e. he believed he created a contract with his patient and believes in delivering the best care due to contractual obligation), he may deliver equal or better quality to a physician that's lovy dovey. I believe a physician that's a complete ******* to colleagues and random people may be compassionate and caring with patients because he categorizes them differently. Etc. So in conclusion, yes, I don't believe a compassionate nature or even an all encompassing one where they act "professional" to other forum members must exist to be a good, or even the best, doctor.
I believe a physician could be competent through different motives. For example, he might enjoy critical thinking and solving problems. Second example, if he had a strong sense of job duties (i.e. he believed he created a contract with his patient and believes in delivering the best care due to contractual obligation), he may deliver equal or better quality to a physician that's lovy dovey. I believe a physician that's a complete ******* to colleagues and random people may be compassionate and caring with patients because he categorizes them differently. Etc. So in conclusion, yes, I don't believe a compassionate nature or even an all encompassing one where they act "professional" to other forum members must exist to be a good, or even the best, doctor.
I couldn't care less if you think they're excuses. My excuse for sucking it up in chemistry is that I don't have a damn clue what I'm doing.
The teacher doesn't give a rat's ass about helping. That's obvious from the outset of class. I didn't talk to him nor did I want to, and besides that when he gets asked a question he sort of stares with a dear in the headlights look and routinely says "What are you not getting here?" I don't understand why he'd be like that since his doctorate is fairly recent which to me suggests he ought to be an eager beaver teacher. When I was in college (grad 2003) he taught there and didn't have the old PhD sheepskin.
How they "ought" to act. Very reflective of a personality that's encased itself in rigid boundaries of right and wrong. It's not surprising that you believe my ideals lie within rigid boundaries as well, but I'll spell it out for you: I don't have an "ought" about behavior or acting. I'm open-minded to diversity in personality, instead of forcing people into a moral factory, which hands out hypocrisy as its pollution.Well, we have very radically different ideas of how doctors, or posters on SDN, or human beings, ought to act. I guess it is my age - or maybe my Mama's age. Maybe manners are age-related, but I doubt it.
How they "ought" to act. Very reflective of a personality that's encased itself in rigid boundaries of right and wrong. It's not surprising that you believe my ideals lie within rigid boundaries as well, but I'll spell it out for you: I don't have an "ought" about behavior or acting. I'm open-minded to diversity in personality, instead of forcing people into a moral factory, which hands out hypocrisy as its pollution.
As for your "manners," I applaud how much better you think you are than the rest.
I don't totally understand you, are you really saying that physicians don't need to have a compassionate nature? That wouldn't make sense.
Man, good luck in residency... Try telling the attending who just chewed your ass out in front of everyone in rounds because you didn't write orders the way he likes that he's not acting how a doctor should, and not being compassionate enough. Compassion is fine, but that's not what makes a doctor.
Etiquette at the dinner table: if you eat properly and see someone eat like a best, it is against "manners" to point it out. The only thing that it accomplishes is embarrassing the other person and forfeiting your modesty. Proper modesty in etiquette doesn't just apply at the dinner table. If you're so concerned about other's "manners," you should at least do it privately. Moral police like you should know.When someone asks for help it is wrong to mock him and insult him for his request (that is how this started). If you think that this is too 'rigid' of a moral standard for you, then good luck.
As for your accusation of thinking that I am "better than the rest" that's a straw man argument. It's the typical toss-off line that is thrown at anyone who upholds for good behavior.
I'm done. Since you think that you can treat people with any level of rudeness, we have nothing to say to each other. It's too great a temptation for me to again violate the manners that Mama taught me.
Of course, since doctor's chew out the people that they are teaching, that means we should mock and make fun of one another here on SDN.
dude, are you ok? haven't seen you on the forums in a while.I understand the OP's predicament. I feel similar. See my recent post regarding difficulty adjusting to school.