hi all, im new to this forum, but have read all the previous postings about the columbia program. i am scheduled to start this program in january, and due to the high number of negative responses, im now seriously considering not going, and applying instead to bryn mawr, etc. but i know there are many opinions out there, and I certainly want to visit columbia in the meantime.
but here is my question: i am concerned about being young (22) and moving to nyc by myself without knowing anyone (im from california). I got the impression that most columbia post-baccers were older, married, etc, or already had roots in ny. i am looking for a closeknit community where i can find friends my age, and im not sure columbia offers this, and think i might be better at a smaller place with a more established community. however, the lure of nyc is naturally strong to one who has never lived there. sooo, for anyone who has done the program, did you find you were able to become part of the columbia community, make friends, etc? or if you went to another program where you found the community (especially for young recent grads) was particularly strong, id love to hear about it.
also, i am a very happy and laid-back girl, and im seriously worried about the negativity coming from the other columbia posts. i know this is subjective, but did columbia really make you an unhappy person (as opposed to you already being a little bitter about taking science classes, being out of your element, etc)? there are competitive people everywhere and im pretty good at just ignoring them, but it seems like others arent able to do that at columbia. i wonder if the cali atmosphere has spoiled me, and i too will become a hater if i move to ny... 🙁
anyway, i just want to go where ill be happiest, so any help is appreciated, thanks so much, and good luck to everyone!
but here is my question: i am concerned about being young (22) and moving to nyc by myself without knowing anyone (im from california). I got the impression that most columbia post-baccers were older, married, etc, or already had roots in ny. i am looking for a closeknit community where i can find friends my age, and im not sure columbia offers this, and think i might be better at a smaller place with a more established community. however, the lure of nyc is naturally strong to one who has never lived there. sooo, for anyone who has done the program, did you find you were able to become part of the columbia community, make friends, etc? or if you went to another program where you found the community (especially for young recent grads) was particularly strong, id love to hear about it.
also, i am a very happy and laid-back girl, and im seriously worried about the negativity coming from the other columbia posts. i know this is subjective, but did columbia really make you an unhappy person (as opposed to you already being a little bitter about taking science classes, being out of your element, etc)? there are competitive people everywhere and im pretty good at just ignoring them, but it seems like others arent able to do that at columbia. i wonder if the cali atmosphere has spoiled me, and i too will become a hater if i move to ny... 🙁
anyway, i just want to go where ill be happiest, so any help is appreciated, thanks so much, and good luck to everyone!