thanks everyone for all the advice.
SoCuteMD-you mentioned that you had a few friends go through this process but just one managed to appeal successfully. Does that mean that most of them didnt and were dismissed?
NJBMD-thanks for all the advice. I will really think about all of it, and I'm not going to PM anyone my situation like you advised.
Taurus-I have PMed you a question, hope you don't mind.
I have never contacted an attorney before-any thoughts as to what type/category of lawyer would be best for me to contact regarding a school situation? Also, would it be unwise to try to get advice from law students in my school? I have heard that there is a group of them that offers free counsel/advice to students, but I'm not sure if that includes giving advice to students about dealing with administration of another college (like the college of medicine) within the university. I will contact someone about it and see.
I think my med school is pretty much the type to "cover their asses" and have documentation for most things, which I could tell from my conversations with a dean, who, when I mentioned something that I don't remember agreeing to do and said that I never agreed to it, claimed immediately, "Yes you did, I have documentation." I do not have documentation of the few things I think they may have done "illegally" so to speak, and I"m not sure that beyond giving me advice, an attorney could do much with what "evidence" I have (which is just my word, basically). However, I am seriously going to try to figure out what type of attorney I should get and get one, because I do not want to risk being dismissed permanently from school. Desperate times call for desperate measures.
I am not sure how to present myself at the meeting that will decide this...Some people say humble, some people say forceful, some people say "show your passion" I am not really sure what is the best way to act at the meeting, I guess I will just have to play it by ear.
Thanks everyone for all your help. I'm grateful for everything you have all said. 🙂