Are your families going to the white-coat ceremony???

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I was just wondering how many people's families were planning on going to the white coat ceremony and how big a deal it really is. I'm not sure if my rents will want to make the trip up if it's not that big a deal...

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i think my parents want to see my new place and visit the school and this ceremony is a good excuse to do it. i've seen a few pictures from med school websites on the ceremony but i haven't seen many pictures of parents in there. maybe a few med students can tell us more.
 
From what I'm told, it's a pretty big deal. My friends had their families there, even if it was a long trip. 🙂
 
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Yes, my family will be in Chicago Aug 29th. 🙂 They also want to see where I'll be living the next four years so its a good time to visit.
 
maybe, maybe not. my mom won't (she lives >9hrs away) and although she'd like to, i don't think her and her husband will be making the trip.

my dad kept saying "i don't get it, a whole ceremony for a coat?" and was very confused, while his wife kept saying "of COURSE we'll come" and kept swatting at my dad, who still didn't get it. :laugh: my family has never really been big on ceremonies. and honestly, i don't really care if they're there or not. it's not that big of a deal to me. graduation will be another story, but this just seems a little more trivial (in my eyes).
 
If anyone wants to check it out, I posted this same thread in the allopathic forum yesterday and got some responses from current students.
 
Originally posted by KBCoch
If anyone wants to check it out, I posted this same thread in the allopathic forum yesterday and got some responses from current students.

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and i replied almost the exact same thing over there!
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they'd better be there......
 
I think it is a pretty big deal and I know I would definitly want my family there. It is the culmination of many years of hard work and the official beginning of that which you worked so hard for. I think it is a good thing to recognize that, celebrate it, and share it with those you love who probably helped you get there.
Plus, if most people have their families there, I think it would feel pretty crappy to be one of the only ones there alone.
 
i think most people's parents come to the white coat ceremony. it marks a major accomplishment and creates a huge sense of pride. i know my mom, grandmom, pseudo-mom, and best friend will be they; at this point, they feel like they have as much vested in this as I (emotionally, since they rode the application roller coaster with me).

also, if anyone watched medschool on discovery health; nearly every student's family was there; in fact, each student had a limited # of tickets.
 
Originally posted by MichiMO
Plus, if most people have their families there, I think it would feel pretty crappy to be one of the only ones there alone.

Originally posted by tms
it marks a major accomplishment and creates a huge sense of pride

nah, not for everyone. it's great if that's how you feel about it - but for me, it's just not that huge of an occasion. i celebrate closing on my house more than the white coat ceremony. :laugh: my dad and stepmom will probably be there, but i honestly don't find this that big of a deal. *shrug* obviously, that's just me. 😀 graduation, however..... 😉
 
I pretty much feel the same way as GoodMonkey

For me the start of medical school isn't the accomplishment, its the end...

So you and I can be a little less celebratory over our white coat ceremony but just watch out for our post graduation festivities 😀

I mean, I understand having a welcome to medical school ceremony, but getting all excited about it seems a little bit much to me. I may feel a little sad though if i'm the only one without anyone there, but both my parents work. I think its a little much to ask them to drive 800 miles to watch me put on a shirt 🙂
 
Yup, I agree with g$ & merlin...it's the graduation ceremony that matters. I better celebrate now though, in case I don't make it to graduation..

BTW how do u choose white coat sizes?
 
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I think that its a good time just for parents to see the school and facilities....I mean when else are they going to check out the school. I feel like its kind of the parents weekend for parents. However, I dont want my parents spending alot of bucks to make the trip, but I would like them there.

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I think, just like most things in life, it means different things to different people. My family didn't even come to my graduation and that was in the same country as they lived (!) so I can't really see them flying to the US for the white coat ceremony. As I understand it though a lot of families do come for it, specifically as an excuse to see the new place etc. I expect there will be a lot of families there. Like GoodMonkey I also tend to celebrate other things that go on in my life and the white coat ceremony doesn't mean that much to me. Of course I've never been to one so maybe the actual event will inspire me 😉
 
let me rephrase...it creates a huge sense of pride in one's family members...

remember, they were the one's that listened to you during the whole application process (and empathized) and have kept the faith when most of us have felt like a mugging victim left on the streets. additionally, when they see you walk accross the stage and receive your coat...it provides a sense of relief in that they know, and see, that you are on the road to doing what you have wanted to do for a long while (and ya kinda look like a doctor for the first time).

of course graduation is much more important...no doubt...it's also "more important" then getting accepted in the first place...did you guys and gals not celebrate when you received you first letter (maybe not...perhaps you were signing the mortgage papers for your house😀), but i sure as hell did, and my friends and family were there with me. also, medschool is going to be grueling as hell...anytime for us to celebrate is justified and besides, its provides a reason for partying after the ceremony.

finally, at the UofM, we get our white coats after structure and development (gross, histology, ebryology)...so we actually sorta had to earn it.😉
 
man, I'm not even going to go thru my undergrad graduation ceremony, I can't imagine flying my family across the country for a coat. thats cool you guys have some supportive families tho.
carrigallen, its just liking picking your coat size. If you don't know, go to the mall and have someone in a department store help you out.
 
I will be all alone because my mom lives in another country and my father... let's just say "we don't keep in touch." It sucks to be without family here, but I am kind of used to it by now. I can't wait to start!!! :clap:

Fastidious.
 
I am with Moskeeto on this. I wasn't even planning on going to the white coat ceremony, let alone having my family come from California. Maybe I should get around to telling them that I am going to medical school. That would have been a good topic for the Mother's Day conversation. Oh well.....
 
Originally posted by cabruen
I am with Moskeeto on this. I wasn't even planning on going to the white coat ceremony, let alone having my family come from California. Maybe I should get around to telling them that I am going to medical school. That would have been a good topic for the Mother's Day conversation. Oh well.....

haha seriously. :laugh:
as far as the sense of pride re: the family thing, and them being there thru the whole thing, yadda yadda ... it just wasn't that way in my family. there was no faith-keeping or whatnot. they're proud of me and they believe in me... it's just expressed differently in my family. way back when i took the mcat over a year ago, like one week later my family started asking where i was going to school. thru out the entire process they have *totally* been clueless as to what the app cycle is like (even tho i detailed it for them, they still didn't get it) .... every once in a while they'd as "so have things worked out yet?" :laugh: so hence the prevailing attitude right now among me/my family is more like "they have a ceremony? for a coat?" nah, my family has seen me do a lot of things. they're happy for me, but don't need to drive hours to see a 1hr photo op of me in a white coat. don't get me wrong - they're proud of me and love me and all that good warm stuff. just this ceremony isn't that big of a deal to us. i'm happy for those of you for whom it is a big deal - it's just not the case here. 🙂 not all families are like that.

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My family lives close to where i'll be going to school so I know they'll want to be there. I think they'll really enjoy it and it'll be nice to have them there as I start this HUGE journey type thing.
I dont, however, think they would even consider flying if I was far away.
 
I'm sure my Mom, grandparents, and aunt will go. My Dad probably won't bother because he doesn't agree with my decision to go into medicine and he is fairly uninterested in most things having to do with me. Come to think of it, I probably won't even invite him. Enuff said, the people that matter will be there!!
 
Originally posted by seaworthc
they'd better be there......
I really kind of want my parents there because they are both doctors and I feel a little tie to them through the profession. I personally plan on being Mrs. whoever I marry, but being Dr. Seaworth at work when I earn that MD (why I could NEVER get married before I graduate.) To me, it is the beginning of my road to becoming one of their peers. Just a personal thing.
 
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