I'm basically about to have a mental breakdown and I'm trying to get some more perspective on my current issue. Thanks in advance for any replies.
I just finished sophomore year in college and also declared my major in neuroscience. I have planned and is currently still planning to spend this summer studying for the MCAT (to take it this coming January), volunteering at a hospital, doing clinical research, and accumulate shadowing hours. I've also enrolled in an MCAT prep course for the next few months.
The thing is, I've basically just come to the conclusion that I can't do this anymore. I never fully had my heart in being premed, I just figured I would go along as premed to reassure my parents that I had a plan in college and drop premed to pursue my real passion when I found my real passion. The first two years went by really fast and I forgot all about looking for a way out. I'm miserable in all my science courses and scramble for a reason when people ask me why I want to become a doctor.
I've made a few appointments with my advisor to figure out other options from here, but something I'm really considering is enrolling in my school's Education program and becoming an elementary or secondary school teacher. All of my premed extracurriculars revolve around children and I know that I enjoy working with kids.
Since I mentioned that I'm Asian in the title, the problem with all of this is, of course, breaking it to my parents that I've decided to quit. Furthermore, breaking it to them that I want to leave the healthcare field entirely. My immigrant parents are definitely the type to put up a fight and become very angry with me. I know that they're not strict and overbearing enough to threaten to disown me or stop paying my education, but I still feel the burden of breaking it to them in a way in the best way possible. They're definitely also the type to tell me that it's not that hard and that if all their friends' children have gotten into med school that I can too, that if I work hard enough I'll think it's all worth it in the future, etc.
So my dilemma is this... Do I continue this pseudo-premed pathway that I've planned for myself and tell my parents that I quit once I take the MCAT and reap some not so satisfactory scores that can help in convincing my parents this path is not for me? Or break it to them basically this summer? Either way, I know I will not tell them until I figure out a concrete alternative plan for my future. The only reason I would take the MCAT before telling them is because I fear one of their reasons against me quitting would be that they think I'm scared it's too hard or that I'm giving up before even trying. It sounds convoluted, but my parents are Asian and logic does not exist in my household.
Any fellow premeds with similar experiences that can give me some advice? Thank you!
I just finished sophomore year in college and also declared my major in neuroscience. I have planned and is currently still planning to spend this summer studying for the MCAT (to take it this coming January), volunteering at a hospital, doing clinical research, and accumulate shadowing hours. I've also enrolled in an MCAT prep course for the next few months.
The thing is, I've basically just come to the conclusion that I can't do this anymore. I never fully had my heart in being premed, I just figured I would go along as premed to reassure my parents that I had a plan in college and drop premed to pursue my real passion when I found my real passion. The first two years went by really fast and I forgot all about looking for a way out. I'm miserable in all my science courses and scramble for a reason when people ask me why I want to become a doctor.
I've made a few appointments with my advisor to figure out other options from here, but something I'm really considering is enrolling in my school's Education program and becoming an elementary or secondary school teacher. All of my premed extracurriculars revolve around children and I know that I enjoy working with kids.
Since I mentioned that I'm Asian in the title, the problem with all of this is, of course, breaking it to my parents that I've decided to quit. Furthermore, breaking it to them that I want to leave the healthcare field entirely. My immigrant parents are definitely the type to put up a fight and become very angry with me. I know that they're not strict and overbearing enough to threaten to disown me or stop paying my education, but I still feel the burden of breaking it to them in a way in the best way possible. They're definitely also the type to tell me that it's not that hard and that if all their friends' children have gotten into med school that I can too, that if I work hard enough I'll think it's all worth it in the future, etc.
So my dilemma is this... Do I continue this pseudo-premed pathway that I've planned for myself and tell my parents that I quit once I take the MCAT and reap some not so satisfactory scores that can help in convincing my parents this path is not for me? Or break it to them basically this summer? Either way, I know I will not tell them until I figure out a concrete alternative plan for my future. The only reason I would take the MCAT before telling them is because I fear one of their reasons against me quitting would be that they think I'm scared it's too hard or that I'm giving up before even trying. It sounds convoluted, but my parents are Asian and logic does not exist in my household.
Any fellow premeds with similar experiences that can give me some advice? Thank you!