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I saw a lot of posts about the trouble that dating a classmate can bring.
I wasn't dating a classmate but person X was "obsessed and totally into me" (according to another friend). X was in my social group, and before I knew it, X ended up clinging to me A LOT and dumping their problems on me. I didn't date X and wasn't interested in X, but we studied together and hung out socially.
Eventually, X became so clingy such that I couldn't have a conversation with other classmates without X "appearing" and planting themself there. And X started waiting for me outside the exam hall every time I finished an exam, it was kind of freaky because I felt like X was following my movements.
Finally, I couldn't take X anymore, and just had to cut ties completely.
It has become awkward, of course we pass each other in the hall and don't make eye contact. And we can't socialize all in a group.
We weren't even dating! I mean, at the beginning of the year, cliques form but then people shift a few months later to those with more similar interests....isn't that some kind of breakup/shift?
Has anyone had this kind of "not-really a breakup but cutting ties" with a classmate or even a friend of the same gender, and how to deal with it?
I wasn't dating a classmate but person X was "obsessed and totally into me" (according to another friend). X was in my social group, and before I knew it, X ended up clinging to me A LOT and dumping their problems on me. I didn't date X and wasn't interested in X, but we studied together and hung out socially.
Eventually, X became so clingy such that I couldn't have a conversation with other classmates without X "appearing" and planting themself there. And X started waiting for me outside the exam hall every time I finished an exam, it was kind of freaky because I felt like X was following my movements.
Finally, I couldn't take X anymore, and just had to cut ties completely.
It has become awkward, of course we pass each other in the hall and don't make eye contact. And we can't socialize all in a group.
We weren't even dating! I mean, at the beginning of the year, cliques form but then people shift a few months later to those with more similar interests....isn't that some kind of breakup/shift?
Has anyone had this kind of "not-really a breakup but cutting ties" with a classmate or even a friend of the same gender, and how to deal with it?