Hi, Seap. I'm in a similiar position, except between DMU and Western. The facilities and program at DMU were pretty amazing, and the school felts so welcoming. I truly felt right at home at DMU and would be thrilled to go there. The cost of living in Iowa is particularly low compared to where I live in Southern California.
However, I really liked Western too. I felt very comfortable and at home, and its not too far from where I live now. Since I am married and have 2 small children, it would be great to have family nearby...but the cost is a bit different because the cost of living in California is so much higher (not to mention that Western's tuition is about $8,000 higher than DMU's). On the other hand, it might be easier for my husband to find a job near Pomona just because he could start looking now and just drive up there for interviews. Not only that, but if I ultimately want to stay in California, is that easier from Western?
So, its really a toss-up. As of right now, I'm so glad to have choices and have a little time before I have to decide....but I'm totally conflicted.