Not fake - but that is how the work world is really. NETWORKING is crucial. For instance, my job used to have 7 RAs and now we are down to 2 (based on budgets) and our 2 jobs may open up soon depending on if we leave to school, etc. So what will we do to fill our very sought after positions? Offer it to the best of the 10 psych volunteer students first. It will still be posted, but jobs typically ask around for a referred employee first, someone you know.
So... that means you need to volunteer at labs you are interested in (you said you have at 4 - keep doing it, open up those doors again and maybe now the timing will be right) or new places of interest. It's not a guarantee but better than applying to places where they just see a paper resume.
I've applied to hundreds, to give you perspective, and only been on 3 interviews. And everyday I get emails saying 'this position has been cancelled/filled.' It's part of the game, but don't give up!