Originally posted by ToddE
Amen Dive Doc!! I agree wholeheartedly.
I've been perusing the boards for quite awhile and usually don't reply, but I must voice my opinion on this topic.
I often ask who held the gun the one's head, forcing one to sign into a contract, such as HPSP or general military service. The draft isn't in effect. If you sign on the dotted line, be a man and serve your time. Those who tried to weasel their way out of contracts show a level of irresponsibility and lack of accountability that is unfortunately common is our current America culture. Seems many will sell out honor and integrity for selfishness. I've been in the Navy for 14 years, several years enlisted, more years as an officer, flew jets, was even a detailer (an assignments officers for the non-Navy folks), and am now in med school on HPSP. I believe the point at which most folks get sour on the military is when they become inflexible. They only want to go to one place and if that falls through, they curse the military, get sour, and make everyone around them miserable, stating how hard they got screwed. I was stationed in Japan for 3 years, I volunteered to go as 2 slots where assigned to my flight training class. Either 2 folks volunteer or 2 will be chosen. I volunteered and the other guy was "forced to". He complained to no end, showed up to the squadron still complaining, it fell on deaf ears, almost labeled him as a "non-team player" (I know a few readers will jump on this point, but get over it, that's reality), but within 2 months he was loving Japan and glad he came here. This occurred over and over as new officers/enlisted showed up who were "forced" to take orders to Japan.
So if you get "sent" somewhere you didn't want to go to, the sooner you get over it the better. Bitching and making others around you miserable only makes you look bad. You signed the contract, no one forced you. Be a man, be responsible for your actions, serve your time, and get out. Oh, one last point, it sure is easy to blame the recruiters and detailers, claiming all lied and screwed you. Unfortunately, there are a few who do, but they are definitely the minority. Simply a weaselly way to throw blame on someone else and off your own shoulders.
Semper Gumbi