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"My parents are first generation immigrants and I am a first generation college graduate in my family, .... In addition, a lot about this and my background was mentioned through my essays and overall application, and I even mentioned it during the interview, ..."And I asked where does he say that he's poor.
What? Since when does saying that one's family is not wealthy translate into his family being "poor"?
I didn't come from a wealthy family. I came from a middle class family. But I guess you'd say I came from a poor family if I said that my family isn't wealthy??? What?
The common perception is that "first generation college graduate" is a way of identifying families that are lower SES. This is not always true but it is a perception. Now there are factory workers making $55-62K year in Massachusetts with no more than a HS diploma and a receptionist can be making $36K to put a family's income at ~$90K/yr. That's not "poor" but it if substantially below the families we see where both parents are MDs, JDs, or have big corporate/tech jobs. But if he was trying to give the perception of being "poor" as a hook and then shows up with a pen that costs 800 times the cost of a basic pen, there is a bit of a perception problem that an interviewer might silently note, or might have a question about, so as to not make assumptions.