I'm surprised no one has mentioned Voldhardt and Schore. I know they use it Davis, and I imagine they use it at Berkeley, too. Volhardt is a professor at Berkeley and Schore is at Davis. The impression I got is that this is a very widely used book in the U.S.
That being said, I used the book and I wasn't really impressed. For some reason I just don't like the way things are presented. I know my notes are very different from the book.
I freaking hated that book. I agree that the notes and the book didn't parallel each other. Contrary to what people are saying, I have the book by William Brown and I feel that it does a good job. I think that it is very clear and is easier to read than V&S.