If you can't afford it...don't buy it your true friends and family would understand it if you don't get anything.
cook in...food is cheap .....go to some cheap food place stay away from whole foods or krogers.
What would you need a plane ticket for...if you can't afford it don't fly.
How can you have an expected electrical bill...don't use the A/c if you know you are broke and in debt.
Half of the stuff that you mentioned are unnecessary costs....but the stuff about day car and insurance I agree can be expensive.
If house insurance is too much....rent!!
It is so simple people.
Thanks for the financial counseling. You'll notice that NOWHERE did I say i was broke. I'm not, actually. You keep saying "don't buy a home" but I have to say that is the single best financial decision I have made in the lats 4 years. I bought a small, underpriced condo which I'm now selling for a profit.
a) It's poor etiquette not to acknowledge an invitation with a gift. When I have the time, I get creative. I helped my friend paint and decorate her house as my wedding gift to them. Unfortunately as a resident I will no longer have the time to do so.
b) I'd like to see my family at some point, so plane tickets are a necessity. Do I have to buy plane tickets to a wedding? No. Do I want to enjoy the chance to see my friends on some of the happiest, most exciting days of their lives? Yes. While you may argue that these things are a "luxury," I believe that friends are a necessity. Part of maintaining friendships is reaching out to show you care, so yes - these things do cost money, but I definitely put them in the necessity category.
c) You are clearly clueless. Although I cut back on the A/C and heat as much as I possibly can, as a resident (or clinical medical student) the only times of day you may have to sleep are when the sun is up and it's HOT. You can either let yourself be hot, miserable, and tired or turn on the A/C to cool your place down to 80 and hope for a little bit of sleep. (Also, I did get a TOTAL surprise electric bill when I moved into my current place and used the window A/C at night only. I didn't realize that it was more of an energy hog than my old apartment's central A/C. I moved in right after the billing cycle started, so used it for a little over a month before the bill came - it was $250!!!)
d) Healthy food is not cheap. Sure, I could live off ramen and crap like that, but then my blood pressure medications would ruin my budget. Eating a good, balanced diet of fruit and vegetables, low in processed starches with just enough protein can easily run you $300/month. Just my 7 servings of fruits/vegetables daily costs me about $40/week, and I don't shop at Whole Foods or even Trader Joe's.
e) I didn't say anything about "house" insurance, but even if you rent you should get (and many places require) that you take out a renter's policy. Renting may be the same price (or even MORE expensive in some cases) than buying when all expenses are factored in.
Please note that I never said I "couldn't live" off of 45k. I was simply making the point that a physician's 45k is not comparable to a teacher's 35k (I've never met a teacher making that little, FWIW). My student loan payments ALONE will eat up about 6k of my income at the very least.
You are clearly missing the point I'm trying to make. Sure, you can live like a college student on 45k and be fine. At the point that we have doctoral degrees, should we REALLY be expected to live like students?