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okay so i'm having issues with this ***** i met a while ago. i don't want any pity- i'm just venting.
why are all guys horny like, 24/7?! it's so ridiculous. it seems as though every single guy i've come across in life just wants to get laid. are there any guys in the world, with self-respect? just curious, cuz i have yet to meet one. 😡 😡 😡 😡
 
I can go weeks without getting laid... oops, I did it again! Don't worry about him, just stop calling him now. I'm sure you'll be off better with someone who respects you.
 
saffronrain said:
okay so i'm having issues with this ***** i met a while ago. i don't want any pity- i'm just venting.
why are all guys horny like, 24/7?! it's so ridiculous. it seems as though every single guy i've come across in life just wants to get laid. are there any guys in the world, with self-respect? just curious, cuz i have yet to meet one. 😡 😡 😡 😡

You have to search the good ones out!
 
someone said ...the sex drive of a nymphomaniac is as much as a normal man !
 
Well, hopefully this dude steps off. All guys aren't like that... hopefully this lab nerd (I'm guessing) will focus his attention on someone else. Best of luck.
 
saffronrain said:
okay so i'm having issues with this ***** i met a while ago. i don't want any pity- i'm just venting.
why are all guys horny like, 24/7?! it's so ridiculous. it seems as though every single guy i've come across in life just wants to get laid. are there any guys in the world, with self-respect? just curious, cuz i have yet to meet one. 😡 😡 😡 😡
why do all girls think the way to respectibility is thru chasity?
 
saffronrain said:
okay so i'm having issues with this ***** i met a while ago. i don't want any pity- i'm just venting.
why are all guys horny like, 24/7?! it's so ridiculous. it seems as though every single guy i've come across in life just wants to get laid. are there any guys in the world, with self-respect? just curious, cuz i have yet to meet one. 😡 😡 😡 😡


Really? U must be a hottie then! 😀

Joking. 😛
 
As the saying goes-- Men trade intimacy for sex & women trade sex for intimacy .

Of course not everyone is typically man or a woman .
 
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hahahahahahahaha

thanks guys. 😀
 
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oh com`on data ...
 
men have been that way forever...just look at this.
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hahahaha you guys are awful. hahaha damn... 🙄
 
perhaps u need to find the guy who is gonna treat u right...sometimes they are in right in front of u, but u ignore them

only loser bfs ask for sex...a bf who loves u and respects ur sexual repression will never ask for it...that doesnt mean he doesnt want it. He is only sacrificing his needs so that he doesnt hurt you....thats true love.
 
nokia said:
As the saying goes-- Men trade intimacy for sex & women trade sex for intimacy .

Of course not everyone is typically man or a woman .


I can't agree more. Its how we are made by nature. I don't think sex is wrong as long as it is accompanied with love. Yes, it is wrong on the first date, lol. Not if you trust each other and are planning on getting married in the future. Imagine, if guys weren't horny, all people would do is only make out all the time. Now, how does that produce babies? It really works out if both the partners define love as a part of sex and sex as a part of love. You pleasure the person you love, nothing wrong about it. As far as your heart tells you that the man will stand by you in the gloomiest of the days, go for it, because its all worth it.
 
priyanka said:
I can't agree more. Its how we are made by nature. I don't think sex is wrong as long as it is accompanied with love. Yes, it is wrong on the first date, lol. Not if you trust each other and are planning on getting married in the future. Imagine, if guys weren't horny, all people would do is only make out all the time. Now, how does that produce babies? It really works out if both the partners define love as a part of sex and sex as a part of love. You pleasure the person you love, nothing wrong about it. As far as your heart tells you that the man will stand by you in the gloomiest of the days, go for it, because its all worth it.
If guys weren't horny??? It takes two people to make a baby, not just one. Girls get just as aroused as boys, why all this talk about ohh its the guy who is all over me. I know plenty of girls (yes brown) who act just like the stereotypical male.

Anyways, keep on loving 😀
 
somedays back i read this column on internet here is a excerpt from it. I think this will help u sort out the issues u r facing now.


The Truth About Sex

'No one' is better than a relationship that lacks respect.

You might think that this is something everyone knows, but I see many young people stuck in these kind of relationships -- justifying them for this very same reason.

The greatest love of all, as Whitney Houston once sang, is learning to love yourself. And that, dear, is what I want for you before you go out and find yourself a boyfriend...

And yes, boys do really want 'only one thing' I know that statement is going to draw a lot of flak so here's a more scientific explanation.

In the beginning
God -- whichever one you believe in -- created a virus in the image of man. And woman. Now the trick to spreading the virus quickly and effectively was to have it replicate on its own.

So He invented sex. Yes, I will refer to God as 'He' because I think our Creator must have been a guy. Had it been a woman, She certainly would've given us periods annually -- not every month!

But you see, God's primary motive in adding the sex angle was not pleasure but reproduction. The fact that it was pleasurable offered the necessary incentive to undertake the activity.

As an added safety feature, God gave man a reproductive organ with a mind of its own. One that did not always and necessarily obey the commands from the High Command.

This hardwiring has complicated life for Modern Day Man. Say you meet a nice girl, and there is a mutual attraction. The High Command says, Wait! Take it easy. Get to know her. Be a gentleman.

But whether he likes it or not, the 'reproduce' circuit is also switched on and it sends really powerful signals...

Doesn't this also happen to women? Well, some believe it did in the Caveman era, but centuries of social conditioning, Mills & Boon novels and mushy films have had their evil effect. It does look, though, that God must have wired us differently to begin with.

First of all, since women were the ones stuck with the unwanted side effect -- "Badhaai ho, aap maa banne waali hain (Congratulations, you are going to become a mother)" -- they were bound to be much more cautious and see a big red STOP sign.

Advances in birth control have partially taken care of that factor, but it goes deeper.

What women want
The latest on the subject is that, after eight years of tests involving 3,000 women, Pfizer, the company behind Viagra, has abandoned efforts to prove that the drug works for females too.

'It is the confirmation that men have long dreaded. Scientists have concluded that women achieve most sexual satisfaction through the stimulation of their brain and not any other organ...'

The company's exhaustive research has led to the conclusion that men and women have a fundamentally different relationship between arousal and desire. A women's arousal is triggered by a network of emotional, intellectual and relationship-based factors rather than the simple physical response required by a man.

'While a man's arousal almost always led to a desire for sex, there was no such obvious corresponding factor with women... Men consistently get erections in the presence of naked women and want to have sex. With women, things depend on a myriad of factors.'

In early trials where women were dosed with Viagra while watching erotic videos, the drug appeared to work. But further studies found that even though Viagra induced a greater pelvic blood flow, the women did not feel substantially more aroused. Therefore, Pfizer is now concentrating on finding drugs that affect a woman's brain chemistry.

The fact that the earth only moves for women if they think it does comes as no surprise to many leading female sexologists.

As one op-ed writer who was less-than-impressed observed: 'It has long been held in these circles that a woman has an emotional libido. The only surprise has been that it has taken many hours of research and thousands of pounds to conclude something that is blindingly obvious...'

That's why the whole porn industry is geared towards men and the romance industry towards women! As the old saying goes: girls use sex to get love, and guys use love to get sex.

'The One Thing'
The point is that a girl needs affection, understanding and emotion -- after which sex may follow.

However, many young women end up having a physical relationship hoping to get their core needs fulfilled later. Only to find that doesn't always happen. And when it doesn't, it's extremely hurtful and demeaning.

Because the guy may actually just be scratching his reproductive itch, and have no emotions for her to begin with.

Now you may argue that sex will lead to an emotional bonding. Possible, but dicey. Guys do have a concept of women who they will sleep around or 'have fun' with, and women who 'mean more'. Women for whom they feel something in their brains and not just in their briefs.

Even in more 'liberated' countries, the casual and meaningless sexual encounter may be common but not necessarily fulfilling for the woman. A recent report from the UK reveals that, despite the fact that both men and women experience their first intercourse at age 16, there remain gender differences in the experience of the event.

Women are twice as likely as men to regret their first experience of intercourse and three times as likely to report being the less willing partner.

Something to keep in mind before you make your decision...

And finally...
Make sure your boyfriend respects you and loves you for who you are, not just how you look.

It really helps to know what it is you're really looking for before setting off to find it in the first place. 🙂
 
sunny123 said:
If guys weren't horny??? It takes two people to make a baby, not just one. Girls get just as aroused as boys, why all this talk about ohh its the guy who is all over me. I know plenty of girls (yes brown) who act just like the stereotypical male.

Anyways, keep on loving 😀
She is going to marry some horny doctor who will help her produce more horny "intelligent" babies to hornify the world.
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"Imagine, if guys weren't horny, all people would do is only make out all the time" If guys weren't horny all the females would move to canada and get married to each other.
 
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Lol...lol 😉
 
A Typical Male

A man is dating three women and wants to decide which to marry. He decides to give
them a test. He gives each woman a present of $5000 and watches to see what she
does with the money.

The first does a total make-over. She goes to a fancy beauty salon, gets her hair
done, new make up and buys several new outfits and dresses up very nicely for
the man. She tells him that she has done this to be more attractive for him
because she loves him so much.

The man was impressed.

The second goes shopping to buy the man gifts. She gets him a new set of golf clubs,
some new gizmos for his computer, and some expensive clothes. As she presents
these gifts, she tells him that she has spent all the money on him because she
loves him so much.

Again, the man is impressed.

The third invests the money in the stock market. She earns several times the $5000.
She gives him back his $5000 and reinvests the remainder in a joint account.
She tells him that she wants to save for their future because she loves him so
much.

Obviously, the man was impressed.

The man thought for a long time about what each woman had done with the money,
and then he married the one with the largest breasts.
 
okay, so all guys aren't horny 24/7.. changed my mind.

and data- that is not the typical male- at least, i should hope not.
 
sunny123 said:
^ That isn't typical.
Funny boy don't know funny joke when funny boy sees funny joke.
 
I cant believe i just read thru all this...i am now dumber from this experience.

thank you, all.
 
saffronrain said:
okay so i'm having issues with this ***** i met a while ago. i don't want any pity- i'm just venting.
why are all guys horny like, 24/7?! it's so ridiculous. it seems as though every single guy i've come across in life just wants to get laid. are there any guys in the world, with self-respect? just curious, cuz i have yet to meet one. 😡 😡 😡 😡

hey.... spare him plz.. he is perfectly normal! every red blooded male of the species Homo sapien sapien worth his cojones is just like that. 🙄
 
all guys are horny no matter what...its just depends on the male if he decides to respect the girl and let her decide when is the right time. If you say you can go without sex for a long time..you need help...its just how males are and its not our fault.

**thats why old times (farmers etcc..), people got married when they are like freakin 13 -1 5 years old..now guys have to work hard and have a stable job with lots of cash before they can get married and taste some sex. well i don't know how new generation looks at sex in India but keeping a guy away from sex is like asking him not to eat. lol monkeys don't even have to go through this kind of stuff..lol
 
booboo said:
all guys are horny no matter what...its just depends on the male if he decides to respect the girl and let her decide when is the right time. If you say you can go without sex for a long time..you need help...its just how males are and its not our fault.

**thats why old times (farmers etcc..), people got married when they are like freakin 13 -1 5 years old..now guys have to work hard and have a stable job with lots of cash before they can get married and taste some sex. well i don't know how new generation looks at sex in India but keeping a guy away from sex is like asking him not to eat. lol monkeys don't even have to go through this kind of stuff..lol


HAHAAA... :laugh: :laugh:
 
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Dr Jay Kill said:
Be a *** hag then! thatz the only option u have left to urself 😛
rofl.... :laugh:
 
well this totally off the topic but desikudi's avatar reminded me of KBC. i yesterday saw first episode of KBC 2. promo for KBC2 are quite cool indeed. here is a little spook of their campaign "milega umeed se dugna" in context of mumbai floods.

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Ramchandra Mutt was shooting an episode of KBC 2 with Big B in Goregoan’s Film City on that fateful July 26th.. Breaking through tight security and secrecy, he gives us the questions that were put to him as he sat on on the extremely Cold Seat ...

Ramchandraji, aap ka pehla sawaal 10,000 rupaye ke liye hai

What was the meteorological department doing on the 26th of July?
a) Playing Solitaire
b) Playing Snake
c) Sipping chai with hot pakodas
d) Watching the weather forecast on CNN and taking notes to make the next day’s forecast.

Bahut achche. Ab doosra sawaal 50,000 rupaye ke liye

What was the true reason behind the sudden rains?
a) It was both Sindhustan Times and Crimes of India trying to halt the launch of PNA
b) Urvashi and Menaka were crying in Indralok for Salman Khan
c) Blame it on the Communists!
d) Blame it on Pakistan!!

On to the next question, it’s for 1 lakh rupees..

What was our CM Nilassrao Dishmush up to?
a) Appreciating the gifts Madmohan Singh got for him from USA
b) Hosting a dinner party for Narayan Shaane
c) Was on the phone noting down pasta recipes from Shawniaji
d) Busy negotiating with producers, to get films for his jobless son Reetesh

I have to go on a shoot for Babul, so let’s wrap this up fast OK.

Why were the cell networks down?
a) They were too overloaded with MMS videos
b) Orange was looking for their dog; he drowned.
c) MTNL = Mera Telephone Nahaane Laga
d) Sehwag ki maa was chit chatting with the Indian cricket team, jamming all the networks

Great, my wife is busy in Delhi in Rajya Sabha enjoying the sunshine and I have to do shows like this all over again. Life sux!

Why was the town side unaffected by rains?
a) The ShAmbanis launched special laser rays to stop the rains
b) That’s not even Mumbai...
c) It was built by the British - duh!
d) People there bribed the Rain Gods with the money from their Swiss Bank accounts

Exec Producer: Amitji, aap rakam bolna toh bhool hi gaye.
Amitabh: Main Insaan hoon, maseeha nahin! I have to go and shoot chyawanpraash ads you know. Next question!

If you met a Bollywood star on 26th July, you would...
a) Ask them to take you over at their place since you live far away
b) Get the inside scoop on who’s sleeping with whom
c) Request a quick interview for JAM.
d) Start giving them career advice!

What was wrong with the drainage system?
a) Please no jokes Amitji. Drainage! Ha!
b) People mistook it for a dustbin all this while
c) Wait! I thought that was a free toilet facility.
d) BMC used it to trap rats and drunkards

Next time you are stuck in waist high water, what will be your preferred mode of transport?
a) Bhaaji ki tokris - sit in them and row away
b) Walk on stilts robbed from the nearby circus
c) Tarzan style, from pole to pole
d) Eat Parle G and wait for Shaktimaan

Will there be heavy rains again?
Ramchandra wants ‘audience poll’ - magar the audience is stuck in the heavy rains. Finally he asks to ‘phone a friend’.

Amitabh: Bataiye kis se baat karenge?
Mutt: Bejaan Daruwala!
 
now Saff ! u must b pleased to know the varieties & inside out of a guy`s mind !
 
nokia said:
now Saff ! u must b pleased to know the varieties & inside out of a guy`s mind !
Yo nokia you are a girl right?
 
The following is from the movie "When Harry Met Sally." Old, but mad good.

Harry: A man can never be friends with a woman he finds attractive, he always wants to have sex with her.
Sally: That's not true! I have a number of men friends and there is no sex involved.
Harry: No, you don't
Sally: Yes, I do.
Harry: No, you don't
Sally: You're saying I'm having sex with these men without my knowledge?
Harry: No, I'm saying they all want to have sex with you.
Sally: Well, what if they don't want to have sex with you?
Harry: It doesn't matter because the sex part is already out there, so the friendship is ultimately doomed, and that is the end of the story.
Sally: So a man can be friends with a woman he finds unattractive?
Harry: No, you pretty much want to nail them, too.
 
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why do all girls think the way to respectibility is thru chastity?

+1 to the above statement... Women, especially brown women, think that sex is evil or someting... Iono if its the worlds way of naturally trying to balance out one of the worlds largest populations or what but it seriously sux...

its like God decided one day... "okay brown men... you have been boinking too much.... No sex for ju!"

wtf!
 
lol dggopal, you frustrated about something?

this should probably have been added to my list of things that make it difficult for a girl to be here: yes, guys are always gonna be horny perverts, but in india they make no effort to hide it. its quite frustrating.
 
The following is from the movie "When Harry Met Sally." Old, but mad good.

Harry: A man can never be friends with a woman he finds attractive, he always wants to have sex with her.
Sally: That's not true! I have a number of men friends and there is no sex involved.
Harry: No, you don't
Sally: Yes, I do.
Harry: No, you don't
Sally: You're saying I'm having sex with these men without my knowledge?
Harry: No, I'm saying they all want to have sex with you.
Sally: Well, what if they don't want to have sex with you?
Harry: It doesn't matter because the sex part is already out there, so the friendship is ultimately doomed, and that is the end of the story.
Sally: So a man can be friends with a woman he finds unattractive?
Harry: No, you pretty much want to nail them, too.

That was brilliant writing ..

& to answer your question ,, not all men wanna have sex 24/7 ,, but its not a bad thing ,,
 
okay so i'm having issues with this ***** i met a while ago. i don't want any pity- i'm just venting.
why are all guys horny like, 24/7?! it's so ridiculous. it seems as though every single guy i've come across in life just wants to get laid. are there any guys in the world, with self-respect? just curious, cuz i have yet to meet one. 😡 😡 😡 😡


Flatter yourself! I think you are just another ugly girl desperate to get laid!!
 
She is going to marry some horny doctor who will help her produce more horny "intelligent" babies to hornify the world.
beware-of-men.jpg


"Imagine, if guys weren't horny, all people would do is only make out all the time" If guys weren't horny all the females would move to canada and get married to each other.

Why Canada! 😕
 
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