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I have been accepted to veterinary school and will begin this fall. I was very excited, but I am now concerned because of many factors. My life is kind of splitting at the seams. I am looking to discuss the matters with perhaps someone that has been in a similar situation.
Cancer has been in my family almost my entire life. Many family members have passed on due to it. My grandmother has been battling it for many years and my father has as well. My aunt also lost her vision due to metastatic melanoma and most recently my mother has been diagnosed. I have medical issues myself which require surprise visits to the hospital and routine check ups. I was originally worried that my own health issues would cause a problem with veterinary school. The veterinary school I am planning on attending does not know any of this because I am very personal and did not want judgment or unnecessary sympathy. Due to my mother's recent findings, I am now concerned for her time and I am wondering if perhaps I should decline my acceptance to be with her.
Has anyone been in difficult emotional situations before and able to spend enough time with their family? I do not want to regret my decision one way or the other. I want to be with my family during whatever time they have left, but I also do not want to pass up such a great opportunity. Has anyone else been in a situation where they have their own health issues / family health issues and had to attend veterinary school? Does anyone have advice for me?
Cancer has been in my family almost my entire life. Many family members have passed on due to it. My grandmother has been battling it for many years and my father has as well. My aunt also lost her vision due to metastatic melanoma and most recently my mother has been diagnosed. I have medical issues myself which require surprise visits to the hospital and routine check ups. I was originally worried that my own health issues would cause a problem with veterinary school. The veterinary school I am planning on attending does not know any of this because I am very personal and did not want judgment or unnecessary sympathy. Due to my mother's recent findings, I am now concerned for her time and I am wondering if perhaps I should decline my acceptance to be with her.
Has anyone been in difficult emotional situations before and able to spend enough time with their family? I do not want to regret my decision one way or the other. I want to be with my family during whatever time they have left, but I also do not want to pass up such a great opportunity. Has anyone else been in a situation where they have their own health issues / family health issues and had to attend veterinary school? Does anyone have advice for me?