Not that
LizzyM needs any backup, but this is exactly how my last interviewer summed up her impression of my childhood disadvantages. The disadvantaged section allowed me to give a brief background that better explained and shed light on certain things in my PS, ECs, and my most meaningfuls.
This is my problem, right here...I really do feel that my "disadvantages" have given me a lot of advantages in life. I mean, yes, by the letter of it I qualify as a disadvantaged student - raised by a single teenage mother (well, she wasn't single for the first 4 yrs of my life, but my father has still, to this day, not managed to find employment anywhere, so she was supporting a deadbeat husband, his senile grandmother, and a newborn in the rural northwest - more than 1000mi from her family - at the age of 17/18). I have lived in every socioeconomic demographic from trailer trash/food stamps to minimum wage all the way through upper middle class, because my mom managed to pull off single mother + full time job + school year after year until finally earning her ph.d.
So yeah, I was on food stamps. I was raised by a single teenager. I had free, and then reduced school lunches. The doctor was a luxury; it blew our budget when something went wrong medically. But education was how my mom pulled us out of poverty, and therefore it was always the #1 emphasis in my life, so I never felt that doing poorly in school was an option, and so I didn't (until college, but that was my own fault).
I ended up going to an uber-rich school, and it shocked me how much those kids' limited perspectives on life prevented them from relating with anyone with a dissimilar background. So I don't feel that I was disadvantaged; I've gotten a lot of help throughout the years just by virtue of being able to talk to and relate to almost everyone I meet. And academically, well...if anything I knew the true value of a good education better than most, though I botched the transition into college and ended up settling for Bs instead of As, which was stupid of me.
So, I'm sort of conflicted on this, because while I meet the criteria for disadvantaged status, I'm not really sure that I felt academically disadvantaged. On the other hand, I do think that it gave me some valuable perspectives which I would love to have a chance to discuss on my app. It just feels very disingenuous to claim disadvantaged when my mother is now upper-middle class and I managed to make it out of college debt-free due to awesome finaid (another advantage of being poor back then). I wouldn't want them to think I was trying to weasel out of my crappy GPA or make excuses for it. I fully admit that my poor UG showing was entirely my fault and not directly caused by any disadvantage.
