Can you analyse me, I need some insight

[Internet kid]

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Today while I was at school (college) I wanted to smoke some weed, I had forgotten my lighter and so I was hoping to find someone I knew. Luckily, I ran into an old friend who I had not seen in a while who happened to have a lighter. We walked around and looked for a safe place to smoke and we finally found one,after we started smoking I noticed that there was this girl there, she's my friend, and I'm secretly in love with her. Anyways, after we were done smoking I kept thinking about what had happened. When I arrived at the library I played the scene over again in my head and this is how it went, "awe man she saw me, that will be a negative point--Yeah right, as if you ever had a chance."

After I told myself that I stopped, and asked myself, "Did I just tell that to myself?" I know that was the superego speaking but I need more insight into this, and how do I shut him up?

 

[erg923]

this is not a forum for medical/psychiatric advice

 

[idealists]

for starters, stop smoking weed. It can give you cancer and has other negative consequences.

second, go see someone, like a school counselor or therapist or psychiatrist. There are also many good self-help books out there. Talk to your doctor first.

 

[deleted176373]

Today while I was at school (college) I wanted to smoke some weed, I had forgotten my lighter and so I was hoping to find someone I knew. Luckily, I ran into an old friend who I had not seen in a while who happened to have a lighter. We walked around and looked for a safe place to smoke and we finally found one,after we started smoking I noticed that there was this girl there, she's my friend, and I'm secretly in love with her. Anyways, after we were done smoking I kept thinking about what had happened. When I arrived at the library I played the scene over again in my head and this is how it went, "awe man she saw me, that will be a negative point--Yeah right, as if you ever had a chance."

After I told myself that I stopped, and asked myself, "Did I just tell that to myself?" I know that was the superego speaking but I need more insight into this, and how do I shut him up?

No, you don't need more insight, as noted above, smoke a little less and think a little more... Plus you never had a chance with her anyway.

In before the lock!!!

Mark

 

[Therapist4Chnge]

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