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I am having a tough time with my supervisor. At my other 4 practicum placements, I loved my supervisors or felt neutral towards them. This year is different. I already matched to an APA internship, and I would never ask this person for an LOR. Still, I am afraid of retaliation at the site itself.
Our dynamic has affected my mental health, and while I only have 3.5 more months of externship to push through, the situation has escalated. My supervisor spends 25 minutes of our meetings criticizing/yelling (everything from the speed to which I talk, being angry I got COVID and had to miss work, to disliking how close I was standing to a table during a group). He could go from being angry one minute to calm the next. I appreciate feedback, but none of his criticism is fair or constructive. There’s more, but I don’t want to write a novel.
I told him it would help my confidence if when providing feedback, he could tell me what I have done right in addition to what I have done wrong. He just criticized me for not independently feeling confident. My DCT told me that if I resign, she would support me. I have never quit, though and leaving feels wrong because I made a commitment.
Any advice on surviving the end of the year without losing my mind (or just emotional support) is appreciated haha.
Our dynamic has affected my mental health, and while I only have 3.5 more months of externship to push through, the situation has escalated. My supervisor spends 25 minutes of our meetings criticizing/yelling (everything from the speed to which I talk, being angry I got COVID and had to miss work, to disliking how close I was standing to a table during a group). He could go from being angry one minute to calm the next. I appreciate feedback, but none of his criticism is fair or constructive. There’s more, but I don’t want to write a novel.
I told him it would help my confidence if when providing feedback, he could tell me what I have done right in addition to what I have done wrong. He just criticized me for not independently feeling confident. My DCT told me that if I resign, she would support me. I have never quit, though and leaving feels wrong because I made a commitment.
Any advice on surviving the end of the year without losing my mind (or just emotional support) is appreciated haha.
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