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Honestly don't know how you could have avoided encountering that before now. I had an ORM friend who was a sweetheart but would b*tch about that a lot. She got into Harvard for undergrad so it was not like her life was really affected about it, but she still b*tched about it.
I don't have many American ORM friends. Actually, I don't have many American (ie, all together born and raised) friends. 😳 Nearly all of us are international to some extent or dual-citizens who grew up outside of the US. My core friend group consisted of my Ecuadorian best friend (dual citizen), a Mexican (green card), my Turkish boyfriend (visa), his Chinese best friend (green card), and one good natured "All American White Boy." My extended friend group is only vaguely less diverse.
I knew this issue exists, but I guess I just didn't realize quite how prevalent the sentiments are and how bitterly many feel about it, on all sides.
Man, who am I going to be friends with in med school if I want to keep this up? I guess the grad students?
