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Did you say he was in Cali?

Nope. He's about 20 mintues from me.

this is going to sound messed up so I apologize ahead of time but since your bf is inexperienced in relationships you can really help mold him into an amazing bf - you just have to give a little guidance. I bet you dinner that he has no idea he is doing anything wrong.

Just gently ask him why he doesn't initiate any convos or suggest that you'd really like it if he called you once and awhile so you don't feel like you are chasing him. Let us know how it goes!

Yeah, I couldn't agree more, Lyss. I'm sure that's what it is. I do think this is a really great chance to be with a guy doesn't have 'expectations' and is willing to work with me. He wants to be a good boyfriend, I know.

I know I'm a little insecure about how he feels, but I think the bottom line is that I know he cares even if he doesn't call.

🙂 I'm working on my own communication skills, too, I think. It's healthy for us both.

Yeah, Lyss you have good relationship advice 😀.
 
Congrats Berken! 😀😀 Awesome.

Good night to Lyss, Vadd0, Ryserr, Funky, Scarlet, (CRB? are you still up?) and Berken 🙂 and others I missed (??)

I think aznboy left a while ago.
 
Nope. He's about 20 mintues from me.



Yeah, I couldn't agree more, Lyss. I'm sure that's what it is. I do think this is a really great chance to be with a guy doesn't have 'expectations' and is willing to work with me. He wants to be a good boyfriend, I know.

I know I'm a little insecure about how he feels, but I think the bottom line is that I know he cares even if he doesn't call.

🙂 I'm working on my own communication skills, too, I think. It's healthy for us both.

Yeah, Lyss you have good relationship advice 😀.
lol I'm a relationship guru
 
Congrats Berken! 😀😀 Awesome.

Good night to Lyss, Vadd0, Ryserr, Funky, Scarlet, (CRB? are you still up?) and Berken 🙂 and others I missed (??)

I think aznboy left a while ago.
good night pianola. I think I might follow you, especially now that I am being SHUNNED 😛 Night everybody!
 
Now we have to shun you for attempting to break the truce.
Nah, Berk is just too awesome to be shunned... I mean if you can resist facebook, then you are a bigger person than I am.
Nope. He's about 20 mintues from me.
'K. I was just gonna say that Berk, RySerr, and I would take care of some business if it were not going as planned, if he were bad... maybe I was thinking of some other post.
Congrats Berken! 😀😀 Awesome.

Good night to Lyss, Vadd0, Ryserr, Funky, Scarlet, (CRB? are you still up?) and Berken 🙂 and others I missed (??)

I think aznboy left a while ago.

G'night! I should be sleeping also... I do not want to ruin my sleep cycle... although I do have 3 day weekends every week😀
 
good night pianola. I think I might follow you, especially now that I am being SHUNNED 😛 Night everybody!
We would never shun you. You are awesome also!👍 You are the SDN Love Guru!:laugh: Plus your avatar is friggen awesome... Good night!
Hey! I get back and everyone goes to sleep🙁.

Actually sleep is a code word for going on the facebook group... you would be invited, but you do not have a facebook.:meanie:
 
aight people, i'm goin to sleep. I'm goin snowboardin tomorrow and gotta be on the road by 5! Adios everyone!!!!!!!!!!!
 
aight people, i'm goin to sleep. I'm goin snowboardin tomorrow and gotta be on the road by 5! Adios everyone!!!!!!!!!!!
Have fun! Good night!
I'm turning in too.
Good night scarlet!
Why is everyone leaving? 🙁 But go sleep...sleep is more important than SDN.

😱Somethings are more important than SDN? Berk, that is blasphemy. You should be stripped of your mod status.🙄

Anyway, I need to get some sleep also. I have about a 100 pages of reading to do tomorrow! I can't be falling asleep in the middle of it...
 
Have fun! Good night!

Good night scarlet!


😱Somethings are more important than SDN? Berk, that is blasphemy. You should be stripped of your mod status.🙄

Anyway, I need to get some sleep also. I have about a 100 pages of reading to do tomorrow! I can't be falling asleep in the middle of it...
:laugh: Ok...SDN is more important than sleep. I don't want my mod status revoked.
 
Who had their relationship since HS then? ar?

Also, me 🙂

So yeah, if I've learned one thing in my life, bad things happen when I don't talk to my gf and leave us both to speculate over worst case scenarios... the stuff we dream up is usually way worse than reality!
 
this is going to sound messed up so I apologize ahead of time but since your bf is inexperienced in relationships you can really help mold him into an amazing bf - you just have to give a little guidance. I bet you dinner that he has no idea he is doing anything wrong.

Just gently ask him why he doesn't initiate any convos or suggest that you'd really like it if he called you once and awhile so you don't feel like you are chasing him. Let us know how it goes!

I'm not sure I can support "molding" bfs... but I can't TELL you the number of times I've felt the cold shoulder from my gf for like a week, I ask her what's wrong, and she says, "Nothing"... aka, she wants me to figure it out on my own. This is unfortunate, as I never figure out what the heck is up, and I just wind up feeling confused and we both wind up frustrated.😡

So yeah... TELL HIM!!! Waiting for us guys to just suddenly have an epiphany never works!
 
Damn. Watch a movie or something. Well I'm here for another 30 mins to an hour.

Probably will once SDN comes to a standstill. That's the one downside of living alone, no one around to hang out with if your bored.

It's even too late for my dog I tried to walk it and she refused to get up.
 
I'm not sure I can support "molding" bfs... but I can't TELL you the number of times I've felt the cold shoulder from my gf for like a week, I ask her what's wrong, and she says, "Nothing"... aka, she wants me to figure it out on my own. This is unfortunate, as I never figure out what the heck is up, and I just wind up feeling confused and we both wind up frustrated.😡

So yeah... TELL HIM!!! Waiting for us guys to just suddenly have an epiphany never works!


I agree with this, the let him figure it out method just makes things worse.
 
Enjoy.

I gave up on all thoughts of sleep and made coffee.

Agree. Isn't it funny how you've been accepted to medical school, you only have ONE MORE stinkn' app to write (McGill), yet even with a cushy job (haha, yeah right) and no school, I'm still working my butt off (as seen by the current time. hah.) Sigh. I guess we'll never get a break...but who are we kidding, we love it that way, right? 😀 I know deep down, I do!
 
Oo and top!

Hi Berken!
Wrong post! Epic Fail! 😛

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haha i just noticed the 2014 thread was moved! Good job whoever made that happen. THERE CAN ONLY BE ONE HIGHLANDER!

Awesome. I lol'ed

I see the football talk will never cease. I feel like if I bothered to learn about the game it would help me win friends and influence people, but I just can't bring myself to care...

Haha, it's ok. Football season is almost over.

Same here... I would probably have more in common with my friends if I did... oh well, they all know I am an odd person, so meh...

By the way, the people who have not watched Grey's yet... it was meh, but it is like a part one of 2 episodes, since next week is a continuation of this weeks. I won't give it away since I hate it when people give away the endings... like what people did for Harry Potter 5, 6, and 7...

Harry Potter for the win!!

Ok way too many pages...I can't catch up. What is up?

I played 5 hours straight of basketball, my back is killing me, I can barely walk, and I got an interview invite to an amazing top 10 med school 😱 This is the best day ever.

5 straight hours?! You are a beast. I only played 3 today 😡

Congrats Berken! 😀😀 Awesome.

Good night to Lyss, Vadd0, Ryserr, Funky, Scarlet, (CRB? are you still up?) and Berken 🙂 and others I missed (??)

I think aznboy left a while ago.

Good Night! I left for awhile and now it looks like you guys are all sleeping soundly


Me 3 Berk! Good Job!
 
Agree. Isn't it funny how you've been accepted to medical school, you only have ONE MORE stinkn' app to write (McGill), yet even with a cushy job (haha, yeah right) and no school, I'm still working my butt off (as seen by the current time. hah.) Sigh. I guess we'll never get a break...but who are we kidding, we love it that way, right? 😀 I know deep down, I do!

Totally, I think my problem is actually that I'm not busy. My work slows down big time in the winter time and every year I become completly unhinged from Dec-March.

Did you graduate or is your "break" still going on?
 
Thanks! Yeah, 5 hours...I kinda regret it now. My legs don't work anymore and my back is killing me.

I think your body is trying to tell you something 😉
Oh well, we are only young once! I'm afraid of getting old and seeing my basketball skills decline every year 🙁
Soon, I will be the old timer trying to compete with the young uns...I won't possess a single ounce of athleticism, meaning I'll have to compensate by polishing my game with finesse moves, pump fakes, head fakes, good passing, and a mid range jump shot. 🙁
 
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