Lyss! Hey good to see you. I don't think we've been online at the same times. 😛
We sort of talked about it. I still don't exactly have any idea what he was thinking, but I'm not sure that going down that path would be incredibly fruitful (I'm not convinced that he knows what he was thinking).
Basically, he finally called me Friday night and said that he missed me right away, and I tried to keep it light and just sort of teasingly said "aw, I thought you were avoiding me or busy or something." And he just basically said that no he had missed me a lot and that it had been far too long. So (without being snarky and sarcastic) I told him he could call any time and that I was usually on IM. And he sounded pleased that I'd said that...so who knows what happened? I have been busy, so maybe he thought that he would just "stay out of the way" when I was busy? I don't know.
Basically, what I've decided is that I'm not going to think about it any more unless it happens again. Then I'll deal with it.
😀 Hehe, this post was too long. Anyway, it all got worked out.
BTW, you're totally right about this being a wonderful opportunity to be with a guy who is new to a relationship. He's very willing to listen to me and take my suggestions on what we do as a couple. I love that. Yay, for non-players.