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what about break-ups during the process (not to rain on your thai parade pianola). my BF of almost 5 years and I broke up because I "chose my career over him". that was while i was applying, not even an actually physician.

begs the question, is it better for doctors to date doctors?
yea I have to believe that I have to date a doctor in order to have a happy marriage. I mean guys aren't really limited to dating other doctors, so why should women. I know my bf doesn't mind me being his suga mama for awhile haha
 
what about break-ups during the process (not to rain on your thai parade pianola). my BF of almost 5 years and I broke up because I "chose my career over him". that was while i was applying, not even an actually physician.

begs the question, is it better for doctors to date doctors?

Yeah. For some reason, my bf really loves it that I'm doing something I'm passionate about. I tried to explain 36 hour shifts to him. I guess we'll find out if we're strong enough to make it. He's just very proud of me that I've worked so hard for this.

But you're right. It's gonna be quite a struggle. I think he's stronger and slightly more independent than I am.

Here's hoping?

Was your boyfriend unwilling to move to keep the relationship? 🙁
 
what about break-ups during the process (not to rain on your thai parade pianola). my BF of almost 5 years and I broke up because I "chose my career over him". that was while i was applying, not even an actually physician.

begs the question, is it better for doctors to date doctors?

as compared to?
 
what about break-ups during the process (not to rain on your thai parade pianola). my BF of almost 5 years and I broke up because I "chose my career over him". that was while i was applying, not even an actually physician.

begs the question, is it better for doctors to date doctors?

It seems like dating during med school will be hard because 1) in the case of meeting before entering med school and then getting into a med school in another city, you can't really expect someone to follow you around without a commitment like at least a ring and 2) you can't expect a normal person to be ok with dating someone who makes little time to talk or get together but is always studying...
 
I know my bf doesn't mind me being his suga mama for awhile haha

Yeah...I think my boyfriend's not entirely unaware that I'm his 'investment' for the future...😛

But so long as he's cool with it and wants to take care of the kids, it's promising.
 
all the cool kids are doing it... DO IT!!!

👍👍 Positive peer pressure.

It seems like dating during med school will be hard because 1) in the case of meeting before entering med school and then getting into a med school in another city, you can't really expect someone to follow you around without a commitment like at least a ring and 2) you can't expect a normal person to be ok with dating someone who makes little time to talk or get together but is always studying...

Yeah, I know. And yet, I thnk my bf will be willing to do it for me. I think it's also a function of the two of us being very slightly older. And the fact that he's taking the relationship very seriously. And that he's done with his education.

Well, we'll see...
 
Yeah...I think my boyfriend's not entirely unaware that I'm his 'investment' for the future...😛

But so long as he's cool with it and wants to take care of the kids, it's promising.

You better have an ironclad pre-nup then....
 
oh and Pia Nola, my post count is accelerating at a faster rate than yours, slightly
 
Yeah...I think my boyfriend's not entirely unaware that I'm his 'investment' for the future...😛

But so long as he's cool with it and wants to take care of the kids, it's promising.
hmmm if only my hubby could find a career he is happy with. He's bouncing around he's making me dizzy. ugh boys
 
what about break-ups during the process (not to rain on your thai parade pianola). my BF of almost 5 years and I broke up because I "chose my career over him". that was while i was applying, not even an actually physician.

begs the question, is it better for doctors to date doctors?

I obviously dont know you or your ex, but i do know MALES, and to be honest if he broke up with you after 5 years b/c you "chose your career over him", then he probably had some other reason as well. My gf and I (been together almost two years) are definitely gonna give it a shot, and see if we can make it work. I'm only gonna be about 45 min away, so its definitely worth it.

P.s. i'm sorry he did that.
 
5 years, and it was over because of med school app process? You should probably be glad he broke up with you now, rather than May 16th
 
I obviously dont know you or your ex, but i do know MALES, and to be honest if he broke up with you after 5 years b/c you "chose your career over him", then he probably had some other reason as well. My gf and I (been together almost two years) are definitely gonna give it a shot, and see if we can make it work. I'm only gonna be about 45 min away, so its definitely worth it.

P.s. i'm sorry he did that.
yea was your relationship on the rocks before this MDizzle or did this come out of nowhere?

well, he did you a favor. you are better off without him!
 
You better have an ironclad pre-nup then....

Believe me, if he's willing to move, live with me during the 4 years of med school, 3 years of residency etc there is going to be NO pre-nup necessary.

There's no shame in a guy benefitting from his woman's brains.

oh and Pia Nola, my post count is accelerating at a faster rate than yours, slightly

Ooh, I'm jealous.
 
Believe me, if he's willing to move, live with me during the 4 years of med school, etc there is going to be NO pre-nup necessary.

There's no shame in a guy benefitting from his woman's brains.



Ooh, I'm jealous.

My dad dumped my mom after 15 yrs of marriage for a very wealthy lady.....

You heard that right, my DAD!

Excuse gossip girl references, but I might as well change my name to Brandon W or something.
 
Believe me, if he's willing to move, live with me during the 4 years of med school, 3 years of residency etc there is going to be NO pre-nup necessary.

There's no shame in a guy benefitting from his woman's brains.



Ooh, I'm jealous.
the only thing I fear is a man becoming terribly insecure. That's a hard beast to battle.
 
remember the movie Liar Liar? After the movie is over and they show the funnny clips...the one where Jim Carey breaks out into song and dance while saying "prenuptial agreement." :laugh:
 
the only thing I fear is a man becoming terribly insecure. That's a hard beast to battle.

Ditto. Although I know nothing about the Mr. Nola, he's probably actually genuine
 
remember the movie Liar Liar? After the movie is over and they show the funnny clips...the one where Jim Carey breaks out into song and dance while saying "prenuptial agreement." :laugh:
classic! love that movie!
 
Yup. Agree



🙁 I'm sorry. I guess all I can do is trust. That's all people can do.

Lol @ the way you quoted Lys, it surprised me for a couple secs
 
Yup. Agree



🙁 I'm sorry. I guess all I can do is trust. That's all people can do.
if you don't have trust you are wasting your time, especially in our business 😉

I think the primary reason me & the redhead made it through 4 years long distance was we had complete trust in each other... and we are gonna need it for the next 4! sigh
 
the only thing I fear is a man becoming terribly insecure. That's a hard beast to battle.

Hmm. Yeah. Yeah. I think Mr. Nola is a little insecure sometimes. It's not really a dealbreaker, though. Not yet, anyway. 😛 (I guess we're sticking with GloryField's nickname?)

remember the movie Liar Liar? After the movie is over and they show the funnny clips...the one where Jim Carey breaks out into song and dance while saying "prenuptial agreement." :laugh:

+1 with Liar Liar 🙂

Ditto. Although I know nothing about the Mr. Nola, he's probably actually genuine

Yeah, he's a sweetheart. He had a tough childhood. He was nearly separated from his sister. He could barely communicate with his father as a child because they didn't speak the same language. He's very independent.

One of the first things he told me about himself was that he values his family. He lives that commitment daily.

Here's hoping, I guess...
 
Comments on the fact that he made what is essentially the exact same movie (The Yes Man) like 10+ years later?? Did he think people wouldnt put two and two together?
yea I definitely noticed & had a feeling it wouldnt be as good as liar liar so i didn't see it so i wouldn't have to tarnish my memory of Liar Liar 😆
 
I think the primary reason me & the redhead made it through 4 years long distance was we had complete trust in each other... and we are gonna need it for the next 4! sigh

Yay Lyss! You are an inspiration. 🙂
 
good night scarlet!
 
I wasn't even aware of this. However, even without having seen it I declaire it shameful.

Its the same thing, except this time he has to say Yes to everything people ask.

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uRv4CoXQoAQ[/YOUTUBE]
 
Hmm. Yeah. Yeah. I think Mr. Nola is a little insecure sometimes. It's not really a dealbreaker, though. Not yet, anyway. 😛 (I guess we're sticking with GloryField's nickname?)



+1 with Liar Liar 🙂



Yeah, he's a sweetheart. He had a tough childhood. He was nearly separated from his sister. He could barely communicate with his father as a child because they didn't speak the same language. He's very independent.

One of the first things he told me about himself was that he values his family. He lives that commitment daily.

Here's hoping, I guess...

Huh? What about my nickname? I've never read the book or its summary (and please don't tell me I don't wanna know), but is it related or something?
 
gnight scarlet! people are droppin like flies tonight!

TOP!!!
 
Huh? What about my nickname? I've never read the book or its summary (and please don't tell me I don't wanna know), but is it related or something?

No, no, I mean your nickname for my bf: Mr. Nola.

All right, I'm seriously out this time, too.

Night guys.
 
dude what the hey its 1040, where is everyone going!
 
No, no, I mean your nickname for my bf: Mr. Nola.

All right, I'm seriously out this time, too.

Night guys.

I am confused still, but you are probably ZZZ'ing right now
 
I am confused still, but you are probably ZZZ'ing right now
you referred to her bf as Mr. Nola. then she referred to him as Mr. Nola, thereby using your nick name for him.
 
you referred to her bf as Mr. Nola. then she referred to him as Mr. Nola, thereby using your nick name for him.

ah I C.

I feel dumb now, I thought she was calling her bf gloryfield, my nick is copyrighted so I was gonna charge Pia Nola a grand piano...


Afterall, my ACT reading of 12 (no joke, I can dig it up and take a pic lol) was a consequence of my failure to attend Derek Zoolander's academic institution. Luckily, I taught myself how to read and somehow managed a just slightly below avg verbal
 
ok seriously I'm going to attempt to sleep. Busy day of being unemployed tomorrow 🙂

night everybody
 
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