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1) Fail 2) Hewww yeahhh 😉 3) Fail some more 4) Win 5) I'm pretty 😍 6) go hang with yo gal friends! 7) Still failing

All in all, 4/7 is good right?

I'm taking applications for back up bfs, Flow. Jus' sayin.

7 things?!? wow. you need to hold large seminars instructing women lol

I dunno, I still feel like I need some baking skills before I can go instructing others. wanna help me out, ducky?
 
my list: 1) don't be an asshat, 2) be able to take care of me and also be taken care of, depending on the situation, 3) don't be an asshat, 4) make me laugh, 5) be easy on the eyes (i'm pretty generous with this one), 6) not be controlling, OH and 7) don't be an asshat

everything else is flexible.

You have my seal of approval! Although I'd definitely add emotional stability...(just because I need that and haven't yet had that from my partners)
 
You have my seal of approval! Although I'd definitely add emotional stability...(just because I need that and haven't yet had that from my partners)

ohh, that is certainly a good one. Though for me that would be part of the "taking care of..." section.
 
ohh, that is certainly a good one. Though for me that would be part of the "taking care of..." section.

Good point...by taking care of me, I thought you meant just in a physical way--cooking, cleaning, and ....... I forgot to include emotional support hehe. *sigh*

Mr. Flappety McFlapFlap set a coffee date for Wednesday..we'll see if he doesn't flake out lol.
 
Good point...by taking care of me, I thought you meant just in a physical way--cooking, cleaning, and ....... I forgot to include emotional support hehe. *sigh*

Mr. Flappety McFlapFlap set a coffee date for Wednesday..we'll see if he doesn't flake out lol.

I have a buddy who flakes on women on purpose. It makes them crazy for him. Makes me wish I lacked respect for others like that, sometimes. Game moves like that are dirty and easy =\
 
What does the application include? I have great LOR's.

References are important, and evidence that you can make me laugh. I accept gifts in the form of food and chocolate milk, as well.

Good point...by taking care of me, I thought you meant just in a physical way--cooking, cleaning, and ....... I forgot to include emotional support hehe. *sigh*

Mr. Flappety McFlapFlap set a coffee date for Wednesday..we'll see if he doesn't flake out lol.

Lol, the mental imagery every time you use that name is priceless.

Hope your date goes well/actually happens! Flaky = no good.
 
I have a buddy who flakes on women on purpose. It makes them crazy for him. Makes me wish I lacked respect for others like that, sometimes. Game moves like that are dirty and easy =\


If a girl flakes on me once with a legitimate reason, then fine. But if she flakes on my twice, then I will just get with her best friend and see how she feels about it 😉
 
References are important, and evidence that you can make me laugh. I accept gifts in the form of food and chocolate milk, as well.

This is starting to sound like a lot of work. But I'll buy you a gallon of chocolate milk, if that'll make you happy. My girls always get the nicest things--model dairy ****.

If a girl flakes on me once with a legitimate reason, then fine. But if she flakes on my twice, then I will just get with her best friend and see how she feels about it 😉

That's how it should be done 😎
 
i was enjoying the women-men laundry list of what people like. lets get back to that
 
This is starting to sound like a lot of work. But I'll buy you a gallon of chocolate milk, if that'll make you happy. My girls always get the nicest things--model dairy ****.

:laugh::laugh: It's less work than med school applications.

Baller, I agree. That is entertaining. Let's hear your list, since you say you're picky.
 
:laugh::laugh: It's less work than med school applications.

Baller, I agree. That is entertaining. Let's hear your list, since you say you're picky.


haha I don't want my shallow side fully revealed, but a few important qualities are for a woman to have her own personality, and not just be a replica of the man she's dating...and that should include smarts, charm, humor, and a warm heart.

she has to be a good cook (I'm spoiled 😛), and overall, just be my complement.

superficially, a nice ass, nice feet, and I'm a sucker for nice eyes...looks are obviously important haha but I think that what each person wants physically varies a bunch
 
....and probably a bunch of other stuff but a great girl could make me forget most of it
 
:laugh::laugh: It's less work than med school applications.

Baller, I agree. That is entertaining. Let's hear your list, since you say you're picky.

I dunno, proving things sounds like geometry class, and that class sucked.

haha I don't want my shallow side fully revealed, but a few important qualities are for a woman to have her own personality, and not just be a replica of the man she's dating...and that should include smarts, charm, humor, and a warm heart.

she has to be a good cook (I'm spoiled 😛), and overall, just be my complement.

superficially, a nice ass, nice feet, and I'm a sucker for nice eyes...looks are obviously important haha but I think that what each person wants physically varies a bunch

....and probably a bunch of other stuff but a great girl could make me forget most of it

I like how you're not afraid to say nice feet. The way I word it is not quite the same, but nasty feet or ugly shaped feet are a big turnoff imo.

I like girls who can dance. and cook. and talk about politics. and generally I look for someone with a lot of similar interests and personality traits, but applied in different ways or to different degrees, such that we learn from each other about things we both like. This ideal hasn't come to fruition yet, but it's still one I'm striving for.
 
What do you want me to change the title to? And we're discussing the sticky-ness of the thread. No worries.

"The SDN Safe Zone (It's a racist jungle out there)"

My list of 7 things:

1. Passion
2. Intelligence
3. Great sense of humor
4. Trustworthiness
5. The "give and receive emotional support" one mentioned earlier
6. Spontaneity/adaptability
7. Height (not gonna lie, I've never dated a guy under 6') :laugh:
 
And my list of 7:

1. I must be bigger than her. (kind of like the girl's height thing, but also for weight). I feel weird when the girl is bigger than me because then its her protecting me and not the other way around.
2. Smart
3. Must have her own goals. I want her to have her own career and life.
4. Goofy
5. Kind
6. Must want a family of her own and love the one she's got
7. Superficially - thin (see #1), nice hair, nice skin, nice eyes
8. Oooh! And she doesn't have to cook - I love cooking :laugh:. She just has to be willing to clean up the mess I make when I cook. That's a fair trade, right? I cook she clean? 😕
9. She must also be comfortable just staying at home and doing nothing but willing to go out and try new things.
 
You can't forget Ducky and her master pastry chef skills. That is certainly worth something in the "ideal woman" race.

I feel like defining an ideal man is more difficult because it varies more from girl to girl.

I've never had anyone complain when I bring a plate of cookies.

Ducky is awesome... but her baking would make me fat.

why I run so much

I'm taking applications for back up bfs, Flow. Jus' sayin.



I dunno, I still feel like I need some baking skills before I can go instructing others. wanna help me out, ducky?

Sure! I've baked with friends a lot and they usually are surprised by how simple good baking can be. These days, a lot of desserts are way overdone and complicated, but there's something to be said for a really good chocolate chip cookie or apple pie.
 
... >.>

Birthday girl!

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I wanted to buy these hair clips from Gymboree but they didn't have them at the store and if I bought them online I probably would have had to pay as much in shipping as the things cost themselves (and the rest of the stuff from that store is too rich for my blood) so I decided against it. They matched her dress perfectly. Ah well, she's still too cute for words. 😀
 
"The SDN Safe Zone (It's a racist jungle out there)"

My list of 7 things:

1. Passion
2. Intelligence
3. Great sense of humor
4. Trustworthiness
5. The "give and receive emotional support" one mentioned earlier
6. Spontaneity/adaptability
7. Height (not gonna lie, I've never dated a guy under 6') :laugh:
i feel like i could just use Daisy's top 7, but change height for exceptional curves on at least one end.
 
Awwww, Chicklet is so adorable! I hope she had a fun birthday 🙂
 
This really is a safe haven for the lunacy that is pre-allo. Some of those threads, man 😱.
 
Haha, indeed. Props on trying to reason with Protag about his racist-ish attitude.

Lol thanks. I don't have a problem if he prefers hispanic women for looks or something, but to act like all white women are spoiled princesses or have been around the block (I believe he was talking about how he didn't want a woman who had been "used up before") is really insulting. I'm not a white woman and it even makes me mad. In actuality, it really sounds like he's bitter at all the white women who rejected him in the past, but thats just my opinion.
 
So I was being superstitious and didn't want to join in on this thread until *after* I was accepted (a.k.a. here I am yay!) but wow, I really wish I found this "safe haven" earlier hahaha.

I was seriously considering taking a long hiatus from SDN because I was sick of all the pointless arguments, so I hope I can hide in here for a while!! 😎
 
So I was being superstitious and didn't want to join in on this thread until *after* I was accepted (a.k.a. here I am yay!) but wow, I really wish I found this "safe haven" earlier hahaha.

I was seriously considering taking a long hiatus from SDN because I was sick of all the pointless arguments, so I hope I can hide in here for a while!! 😎

Wow. That's an excellent present for the holidays! Congrats and welcome!
 
So I was being superstitious and didn't want to join in on this thread until *after* I was accepted (a.k.a. here I am yay!) but wow, I really wish I found this "safe haven" earlier hahaha.

I was seriously considering taking a long hiatus from SDN because I was sick of all the pointless arguments, so I hope I can hide in here for a while!! 😎

Congrats man!!!!!!!!

ps: your "I need to complain" thread is golden.
 
The engagement ring thread makes me want to find out who the poster really is... he said he usually posts under a different handle. Mods, can you find that out for me? :laugh:
 
Best chocolate chippers I've ever made, no question. My quest to find a soft CC cookie recipe is at an end...

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GC, those cookies look awesome but I'm sick from all the sugar I ate. I think my new year's resolution is going to be to kick my sugar/carb addiction.

:idea: Icebreaker: share your new year's resolutions!
 
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