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HI. I have been an attending for almost 6 years now. I started a new job in August. I am finding that on occasion I still struggle with a lack of confidence and overwhelming self-doubt. When I show one of my experienced colleagues a case and they disagree, I always cave and assume I am wrong. I think I am well-trained, have a good eye, and a natural talent for this whole pathology thing. Do any of you have this problem? Is it more common for women to have these sorts of issues, or just talk about them more?
Some things that I know they are wrong on, I can stand up for myself. I would like some advice on how to handle those situations- How do I talk to a guy with 30 years of experience when I know I am right about something? Terminology has changed, things have changed. I know he is a good pathologist, and so very smart. But a few things I do know, and I don't want to piss him off (or hurt his feelings).
I sure could use some touchy-feely advice from any of you who may have been through this before. Is this something that fades with time? Thanks!
Some things that I know they are wrong on, I can stand up for myself. I would like some advice on how to handle those situations- How do I talk to a guy with 30 years of experience when I know I am right about something? Terminology has changed, things have changed. I know he is a good pathologist, and so very smart. But a few things I do know, and I don't want to piss him off (or hurt his feelings).
I sure could use some touchy-feely advice from any of you who may have been through this before. Is this something that fades with time? Thanks!