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I am in no postion to tell anyone how to live, but I just think that due to the nature of this profession, we all should value the importance of being human...as well as living healthy lifestyles. And, if all that you wrote was true, I wondered about professional burnout, sleep hygiene/health, aerobic/physical health, interpersonal relationships, outside interests/hobbies.
And, yes, the Lord did indeed say to rest on the Sabbath, PSYDR.![]()
First post here but I'm gonna bump this thread for several reasons. One that I find it quite interesting and like to hear more about what people do once they are done with their studies. Specifically, I'm considering becoming a therapist (one of my options), so this kind of information is very helpful to me.
Secondly, and sorry for the digression, I want to comment on people who criticized the person who is working 60-100 hours. This goes to one of my pet peeves about clinical psychology. I see it everywhere, on TV shows, books, internet sites, psychology support forums. It's about psychologists, and psychology as a field, judging other people but keep framing things in "health" language or "functional" language or recently in "humanistic" language. It's Dr Phil type "how's that WORKING for you?" Or it's not "healthy" to work this many hours. Or like the above post talking about "importance of being human."
I certainly don't want to become a therapist if it means telling a person who is working so hard and contributing so much to helping others, how to live or even worse, to call them sick or ill (if you're not healthy, what are you?!). Even worse, are they NOT a human being or are they not BEING a human the way they're supposed to? Who are we to judge? Hundreds of years ago people worked differently, different hours, different ways, whatever. Were they not human? What about other cultures, even at present time, are they not "healthy"? And what if they're not, is "healthy" more importance than doing what you want or contributing or helping others or...other values and goals that define and shape our activities?
The worst part in all of this is how psychology tries to deny having any values. It pretends to accept people, no matter who they are, but it does not. There are expectations of what healthy people are or do, and how one should live. Yet how many of you therapists, at the beginning of a session, come out and mention your values, and rank your value priorities in a specific and precise manner, before starting therapy? I bet very few of you do.
But it's just me, this is my pet peeve, and I know many people don't see things this way, and I see many people in psychology support forums and on TV shows slowly learn and use and accept the language of psychology, calling things "healthy" and "functional" and "human." Perhaps as someone who has only taken a few psychology courses and has not had therapy, I am paranoid about it and see it slightly as cult-like.
In fact, before coming here I was searching Amazon to see if there was a book about philosophical underpinnings of psychology, specifically psychotherapy, to see what philosophical views shaped psychotherapy. I know Freud's views played a big part in all of it. His secular views, his views on importance of functioning in society (defense mechanisms are all about practical concerns, like sublimation in sports, not that hitting someone against the board in a hockey game is exactly "healthy" either), his focus on sexuality (probably rebelling against the society), his denial of truth of spiritual phenomenon (God as merely a father figure), they did shape psychotherapy.
But I have also read about Carl Rogers. That humanistic values have also shaped therapy is also puzzling. Why? Was there a double blind study done on humanistic values that showed they are "good" or "right" or "helpful" for patients? A lot of research has gone into behavioral methods but humanistic therapy just came out of nowhere. Those values were added...perhaps because it was just a sign of the times? The way suddenly being gay was not seen as mental illness in the 1970s, after political action by homosexuals? Or consider Maslov's hierarchy. It has barely any research support and yet it's used and referred to constantly.
I am sorry if my critiques sound like the drunken political grumblings of a foreigner, but in reality what I am really asking is help to get a grip on all of this, to make sense of it. If psychology and psychotherapy is a science, then I want to see the science. If it's a religion, who is its prophet, Freud or Carl Rogers or someone else? If it's a mix, with different views, different research methods, some values just smuggled in, a variety of therapies and therapy ideologies, where is the ultimate book that explains it all, the history, the philosophy, the ideology, the value system, what are the seminal books that will answer my questions?
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