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If he spread rumors about you it would look poorly/childish on him not you.
 
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JeSuisUnDoc said:
Only if you can handle a no! If not, be friends with him and you'd know if he likes you or not! But again when u like someone, u make up stories from nada

If you just came out of a relationship, aren't you upset? If yes, single life rocks so embrace it and if not then go for it but like the guy above said, go with the flow, don't calculate or over-calculate anything !


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Omg this. OP I would be mortified if a guy said "no" if I asked him out because fragile snowflake lol I prefer the flirty signal route, and letting him make a move.

But you like being direct, so. Let us know how it goes :corny:
 
Huggy said:
We don't pick up very well on the flirty signal route. Too many winks from across the bar only to approach to a 180-turn have made me very cynical. It's perfectly fine to just walk together after class and if it's lunch time say,

Girl: "have you ever been to X restaurant, bar, cafe, etc?"
Boy: "No."
Girl: "Want to go check it out"
Boy: "Yes."

It's not "making a move". We don't exactly live in the 1920s anymore.
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Mmk. Relax. No one said anything about 1920s, big guy. I was just alluding to letting him be the one to initiate a dinner/coffee/drinks date.

I can understand the cynicism though. I'd prob be the same way if I got turned down a lot. Which is why I avoid it like the plague. :angelic:
 
kittycat007 said:
Hey all,

So my previous boyfriend and I broke up due to long distance and his inability to deal with my medical school schedules. The relationship has been dead for a few months but we dragged it out. No chance of rebound happening, but I want to wait for a month before making any decisions. Would it be acceptable to ask out a guy in my medical school class to go on a date with me after breaking up with boyfriend for a month? I think he might like me but I am not too sure. He is currently single. I like being straightforward with my intentions as a "date" but my friends told me it might be less pressure to just "hang out". I won't get offended or weird if he says no, but I am worried that he might get upset or never talk to me again. I don't think he will spread rumors and tell the whole school.

Male medical students, how would you feel if a female classmate asks you out? Would you give her a chance?
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Huggy said:
??? why exactly do I need to relax.... Also, I never said anything about getting "turned down a lot", I was referring to guys getting extremely mixed signals from girls so often that we just stop paying attention to signals entirely. I feel that you interpreted my post completely incorrectly, sorry.
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Lol maybe I did interpret it incorrectly because *~internets*~ pero like I think I get the gist of what you're saying. Signals are lost nowadays/men aren't really paying attention to it. Be direct.
 
kittycat007

Let yourself completely heal from the last relationship.
I'd stay in the books for now.
There will be plenty of time for romance after med school.
 
Ask him if he wants to go out with you and record his reaction. If he doesn't, tell him jk just a prank! Isn't that how people get away with everything nowadays 🙄?
 
edawgmd said:
Ask him if he wants to go out with you and record his reaction. If he doesn't, tell him jk just a prank! Isn't that how people get away with everything nowadays 🙄?
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Ye of so little faith! Our generation does courtship the RIGHT WAY: stare at your mate from across the room. When he/she makes eye contact, screech at the top of your lungs, grab them in your talons and fly to your nest. Romance right?
 
Endoxifen said:
Ye of so little faith! Our generation does courtship the RIGHT WAY: stare at your mate from across the room. When he/she makes eye contact, screech at the top of your lungs, grab them in your talons and fly to your nest. Romance right?
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If I'm not mistaken, I think that's how birds do it
 
kittycat007 said:
Hey all,

So my previous boyfriend and I broke up due to long distance and his inability to deal with my medical school schedules. The relationship has been dead for a few months but we dragged it out. No chance of rebound happening, but I want to wait for a month before making any decisions. Would it be acceptable to ask out a guy in my medical school class to go on a date with me after breaking up with boyfriend for a month? I think he might like me but I am not too sure. He is currently single. I like being straightforward with my intentions as a "date" but my friends told me it might be less pressure to just "hang out". I won't get offended or weird if he says no, but I am worried that he might get upset or never talk to me again. I don't think he will spread rumors and tell the whole school.

Male medical students, how would you feel if a female classmate asks you out? Would you give her a chance?
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Do it. This isn't 1850.
 
Huggy said:
??? why exactly do I need to relax.... Also, I never said anything about getting "turned down a lot", I was referring to guys getting extremely mixed signals from girls so often that we just stop paying attention to signals entirely. I feel that you interpreted my post completely incorrectly, sorry.
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Guys not figuring out what girls mean is more because we're dumb af than them sending mixed signals
OP
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My wife hates it when I tell this story, but it's true.

At a scientific meeting, she hit on me.

Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
Blood is thick, but water thin
In for a penny, in for a pound
It's love that makes the world go round.





kittycat007 said:
Hey all,

So my previous boyfriend and I broke up due to long distance and his inability to deal with my medical school schedules. The relationship has been dead for a few months but we dragged it out. No chance of rebound happening, but I want to wait for a month before making any decisions. Would it be acceptable to ask out a guy in my medical school class to go on a date with me after breaking up with boyfriend for a month? I think he might like me but I am not too sure. He is currently single. I like being straightforward with my intentions as a "date" but my friends told me it might be less pressure to just "hang out". I won't get offended or weird if he says no, but I am worried that he might get upset or never talk to me again. I don't think he will spread rumors and tell the whole school.

Male medical students, how would you feel if a female classmate asks you out? Would you give her a chance?
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kittycat007 said:
Hey all,

So my previous boyfriend and I broke up due to long distance and his inability to deal with my medical school schedules. The relationship has been dead for a few months but we dragged it out. No chance of rebound happening, but I want to wait for a month before making any decisions. Would it be acceptable to ask out a guy in my medical school class to go on a date with me after breaking up with boyfriend for a month? I think he might like me but I am not too sure. He is currently single. I like being straightforward with my intentions as a "date" but my friends told me it might be less pressure to just "hang out". I won't get offended or weird if he says no, but I am worried that he might get upset or never talk to me again. I don't think he will spread rumors and tell the whole school.

Male medical students, how would you feel if a female classmate asks you out? Would you give her a chance?
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Only if she can on-the-spot quote season 1 of spongebob verbatim...
 
yo check your calendar. I'm pretty certain it's 2017.
 
Huggy said:
There are flirty girls, and then there are girls who flirt because they like you. Discerning which is which is nearly impossible for us simple minded men 🙁
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I wish I could retweet this
 
What’s the worst/best that could happen, @kittycat007 ?

Once I met this incredible guy, and we became best friends.

One day I bluntly told him: 1) I absolutely hate playing games, 2) he was the most amazing person I had ever met in my entire life, and 3) if he ever asked me to marry him, I’d say yes.

Two weeks later, yup, put a ring on it.

Twenty-eight years later—still waking up every morning to my best friend.
 
kittycat007 said:
Thanks for all the encouragements and funny comments! Unfortunately the guy is not interested... when I asked him if I could come over to hang out, he told me that he is leaving the house because he needs to study... on a Friday night at 9pm...

Quite disappointing. But next time when I meet someone that I like, I will ask again. It's better to know sooner than later.
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I mean I've definitely had times when I was studying on a Friday night at 9 pm.
 
kittycat007 said:
Thanks for all the encouragements and funny comments! Unfortunately the guy is not interested... when I asked him if I could come over to hang out, he told me that he is leaving the house because he needs to study... on a Friday night at 9pm...

Quite disappointing. But next time when I meet someone that I like, I will ask again. It's better to know sooner than later.
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Maybe ask him to go grab a drink or something? Asking him if you can come over and hang out is a little odd
 
kittycat007 said:
Thanks for all the encouragements and funny comments! Unfortunately the guy is not interested... when I asked him if I could come over to hang out, he told me that he is leaving the house because he needs to study... on a Friday night at 9pm...

Quite disappointing. But next time when I meet someone that I like, I will ask again. It's better to know sooner than later.
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Could of been going to the library somewhere to study... Don't give up. Or if he has no interests, move on. Good luck.
 
She likes you:

-She laughs at your stupid jokes, no you're really not that funny
-She finds an excuse to touch you... on the shoulder or arm people
-She finds ways to spend more time with you

She doesn't like you:

-"You're such a great friend!"

Been that way since we were Neanderthals
 
I'd be very flattered if a girl asked me out. TBH, if she Isn't physically attractive to me, I'd probably shoot her down very nicely. I'm not one to try and give false hope or anything. Then again, I'm pretty picky and I consider it one of my weaknesses
 
kittycat007 said:
Hey all,

So my previous boyfriend and I broke up due to long distance and his inability to deal with my medical school schedules. The relationship has been dead for a few months but we dragged it out. No chance of rebound happening, but I want to wait for a month before making any decisions. Would it be acceptable to ask out a guy in my medical school class to go on a date with me after breaking up with boyfriend for a month? I think he might like me but I am not too sure. He is currently single. I like being straightforward with my intentions as a "date" but my friends told me it might be less pressure to just "hang out". I won't get offended or weird if he says no, but I am worried that he might get upset or never talk to me again. I don't think he will spread rumors and tell the whole school.

Male medical students, how would you feel if a female classmate asks you out? Would you give her a chance?
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My personal story on this topic: back in the day, in my first year of med school, I was a socially awkward geek with a dirty mind and a big mouth. I was in the library the day of the next year's class interviews, trying to help candidates relax. One of my classmates joined in the conversation. After the students left, we continued to chat. She was outgoing, talented, and gorgeous. She was also way out of my league, which might explain why had no qualms about discussing masturbation(!) with her. A week later, she called to see if I wanted to go to a movie. I asked if I needed to call up anyone else in the proverbial gang. She said no, that wouldn't be necessary. Not until after I dropped her at home did I clue in that we were out on a date.

20 years later, we're still happily married with two amazing kids.

In matters of the heart, follow your heart.
 
kittycat007 said:
Thanks for all the encouragements and funny comments! Unfortunately the guy is not interested... when I asked him if I could come over to hang out, he told me that he is leaving the house because he needs to study... on a Friday night at 9pm...

Quite disappointing. But next time when I meet someone that I like, I will ask again. It's better to know sooner than later.
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Bring him nachos...that's how I got my boyfriend to fall in love with me
 
No opie im married sorry



































































































lol I have heard med students are constantly on the prowl
 
Goro said:
My wife hates it when I tell this story, but it's true.

At a scientific meeting, she hit on me.

Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
Blood is thick, but water thin
In for a penny, in for a pound
It's love that makes the world go round.
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PLEASE tell us the whole story! I love " Wife asked out the husband first" stories...
:claps:
 
Lozzo said:
I'm so serious! I brought him nachos and he asked me to be his girlfriend the next day, and now we've been together for 4 years!
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that's the best story! hahaha
 
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