I really thought that this board was going to be different from the rest. I guess I was wrong. Like all the others, this forum is filled with people who bash posters without first trying to understand where these posters are coming from. I hope that we all could be less judgemental and be more objective and helpful when we answer questions posted on this board - if we have nothing good or helpful or substantial to say, then we might as well just keep our mouths shut.
For whatever this is going to be worth (and to save myself utter embarrassment from those who mocked me), I will go ahead and tell my story...
I am a foreign medical grad who came to the US because of personal reasons (that I am sure I share with a lot of the other immigrants who come to this country, doctors or otherwise). I completed medical school and Dermatology residency in my home country before coming here with my husband and 3 young kids. I LOVE skin - it is my passion! I have always loved clinical Dermatology and also have always been fascinated by Dermatopathology. I would have done a Dermatopathology fellowship in my home country after Derm residency had it been available there - alas, we do not have such a fellowship back home. I knew that being an FMG was going to make it impossible for me to get into Derm here in the US so I decided (after much thought and many agonizing nights and days) to do Path instead, with the hope of doing Dermpath after. I did not want to give up studying skin and among the medical specialties, it was Path that I thought would get me as close to Derm as I possibly could.
Yes, I am going to do Dermpath because I have heard it is lucrative and because I know that Derm and Dermpath in general have very good lifestyles. But my knowledge was based on hearsays, so I came to this forum hoping to get hard facts. I wanted to know specifics but regardless of what I found out, I was not going to change my mind about Dermpath. Like I said, skin is my passion. Having said that, however, I will not lie and say that I did not decide to do Derm because I was not attracted to the money and lifestyle. I worked very hard in medical school so that I and my family could have a good life, so that I could feed my kids and send them to good schools, and actually have the time to enjoy being with them.
Why is it that when people start to ask about lifestyle and money, other people are so quick to say that that is bad? When has it ever become wrong to want to have a good life and to be rich? Medical professionals are so hypocritical! We all say we went into medicine because we wanted to help people - Yes! I am sure we all did! But please do not even dare tell me that you did not think about the money. We do not punish other people in other professions for wanting to be rich and for wanting to have an easy life. Why is it that we are so hard on medical professionals? Are we not entitled to such luxuries as well? Yes, we are supposed to all be martyrs, dedicating our lives to healing people - but we also have personal lives, we have families, and we have dreams we want to achieve.
I love skin and I am just so happy to have fallen in love with a field of medicine that can afford me a good and rich life...
I guess I will have to find other avenues to find the answers to my questions...
Thank you all for your time...