Hello everyone,
I saw a post on the med student post and it sparked some inspiration to come here. I was between two schools, both OOS, in April. One allows in state residency after a year [I'll call this school A] and the other did not. The cost of attendance is quite different, with one being about 150k more-this being Cornell. Throughout the acceptance waiting period, I told myself if I did not get into my in-state school, I will go to school A. Everyone at my school was hoping to get in school A also and I was lucky to be one of the few that did. Everyone also had a similar plan to me of choosing this school if rejected from in-state. School A is closer to me and I am pretty family-oriented so I like being close to my family. It seemed like a great plan... then I thought of the *idea* of Cornell. An ivy. I am quite low income, and honestly, I could not fill out the CSS profile and the customer service told me to get a tax preparer to fill it out-hello, I am not paying for that so I truly do not know if I would have received a lot of aid. I asked quite literally asked everyone in my close circle [family and friends and mentors]-everyone said to choose school A. "Vet school rank doesn't matter" "I did not like Cornell when I went" "COA alone should choose school A" So I did. At first, I was scared I would not like school A when I chose it, but I visited and I actually liked the vibes but I am still scared that I chose the wrong school. Cornell is not extremely far from me but way farther than school A so I cannot/couldn't visit on a whim. I am also a minority and my culture is a very big part of me-being low income and a minority at an ivy where legacies go kind of scared me. I know the idea of an ivy should not be the sole reason to choose a school [maybe to some people lol] but I had no help throughout my academic career [also first gen] so in an ideal world I can show it all was for something. This may not be the best way to get an answer, but writing this alone made me feel better and I hope someone out there may make me feel a tad better I may have made the best decision at the end of the day.
I saw a post on the med student post and it sparked some inspiration to come here. I was between two schools, both OOS, in April. One allows in state residency after a year [I'll call this school A] and the other did not. The cost of attendance is quite different, with one being about 150k more-this being Cornell. Throughout the acceptance waiting period, I told myself if I did not get into my in-state school, I will go to school A. Everyone at my school was hoping to get in school A also and I was lucky to be one of the few that did. Everyone also had a similar plan to me of choosing this school if rejected from in-state. School A is closer to me and I am pretty family-oriented so I like being close to my family. It seemed like a great plan... then I thought of the *idea* of Cornell. An ivy. I am quite low income, and honestly, I could not fill out the CSS profile and the customer service told me to get a tax preparer to fill it out-hello, I am not paying for that so I truly do not know if I would have received a lot of aid. I asked quite literally asked everyone in my close circle [family and friends and mentors]-everyone said to choose school A. "Vet school rank doesn't matter" "I did not like Cornell when I went" "COA alone should choose school A" So I did. At first, I was scared I would not like school A when I chose it, but I visited and I actually liked the vibes but I am still scared that I chose the wrong school. Cornell is not extremely far from me but way farther than school A so I cannot/couldn't visit on a whim. I am also a minority and my culture is a very big part of me-being low income and a minority at an ivy where legacies go kind of scared me. I know the idea of an ivy should not be the sole reason to choose a school [maybe to some people lol] but I had no help throughout my academic career [also first gen] so in an ideal world I can show it all was for something. This may not be the best way to get an answer, but writing this alone made me feel better and I hope someone out there may make me feel a tad better I may have made the best decision at the end of the day.