Yeah - I honestly feel I am very respected and no, I don't feel my Pharm.D. is the source of that respect. I've worked a very long time and I've been thanked over and over by patients, prescribers, nurses & even custodians & clerks who have stopped me in the hall to ask a drug question. But, I would agree with the person who mentioned above that you must earn respect - it doesn't come with the degree.
I had an interesting situation a month ago when I had to accompany my mom to an anticoagulation clinic visit. She had suffered a pulmonary embolus & this was her first post hospital visit. Now...she is 87, had a previous thrombolic event which required anticoagulation for a year & my dad had been on warfarin for 6 years, so she was very knowledgeable, but had never been to an anticoag clinic. This young pharmacist did not take ANY history on my mom - she just took the labwork & proceeded to advise a dose change & second visit. When my mom asked when the MD would call her (which is what she was used to), the pharmacist proceeded to tell her MDs didn't know how to dose warfarin & pharmacists did it much better. Now...how much respect do you think you would get telling an 87yo that her MD of 35 years didn't know how to dose warfarin (which he had done very adequately before)?
This pharmacist graduated from USC 3 years ago (no reflection on USC at all!!!), but she did not have the ability to get her expertise across in a confident manner & without reflecting negatively on a physician. She had all the academic & clinical skills, but not the interpersonal skills. Just a few questions might have elicited more information which could have been expanded upon and reinforced and not resulted in a defensive posture.
The point of this very long (too long!!) post, IMO, is to be secure that what you know and the service you perform is valued even if it is not openly acknowledged. Be sure to take the time to talk WITH patients & other professionals, not TO them. Finally, I feel we should learn to be humble. I'll never know cardiac drugs better than an interventional cardiologist, neonatal drugs better than a neonatal ICU pharmacist, how fast cisplatin will produce nausea than a chemo unit nurse or so many other examples too numerous to count. We are important spokes in the healthcare wheel, but just one spoke. (Again.....apologies for the length!)