Most women who deliver at the hospital have done much more extensive research and contemplation of which stroller model to purchase or which wallpaper border goes best with the nursery wall color.
This assertion is just as bad and as narrow-minded as the people who categorically dismiss homebirths and midwives, without even bothering to consider the reasons for wanting these things.
Some women go to the hospital because they're just not interested in homebirths. It doesn't make them shallow, or superficial, or even (*gasp*) bad mothers. It's a choice that they make - just like the choice that you made. Dismissing all of them as uneducated and superficial may do wonders for your sense of moral superiority, but is hardly fair to the women who DO deliver in hospitals.
What I am critical of is the system which tries to fit every pregnancy (low or high risk) into the same mold just as a matter of policy. And as both a physician and patient I think it is appropriate to question if things are done a certain way because it is in the best interest of the patient or if it is just part of a routine or is what always has been done.
To an extent, I agree - MOST pregnancies turn out well, without complications.
The problem that I have with proponents of home births is that it sometimes seems that they equate "low risk" with "
NO risk." And that's just not true.
As an ophthalmologist, I'm sure that many of the procedures that you offer your patients are safe and "low risk." But there's no way that you'd ever call ANY procedure "no risk" - that's just not true, and not fair to your patient.
I think it's really a difference in mindset. Most pregnant women seem pretty sure that their pregnancy will turn out well - none of them really anticipate anything bad happening. And most of them will be correct.
But I think that a lot of OB/gyns are trained to think of the "worst case scenario" - and a lot of current practice seems dictated by that mindset. But until we can turn "low risk" pregnancies into "no risk" pregnancies, then the current practice model probably isn't going to change much.
(Have you read the anesthesia forums? Some of the OB emergencies that the anesthesiologists argue about are absolutely hair raising.
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