Gays certainly bring diversity because their experiences in the medical community are different from those of straight people. Cases in point
- I get to witness the uncomfortable faces of nurses and doctors when I explain why I don't use birth control. You'd think that outing myself to a medical professional would be a nonissue but you'd be completely wrong...even in the liberal land of Massachusetts.
- I've had psychiatrist inform me that my sexuality was just a phase.
- Gays have to scramble for healthcare when they are in states where partnerships aren't recognized by insurance companies, meaning that a heterosexual married couple can be covered but a homosexual married couple who is living in a state where their marriage isn't recognized can't get insurance.
- Certain doctors view homosexuality as a disease, in spite of the DSM saying the opposite since 1980, and will mistreat their patients. Yes, this actually happens.
- Until last year, I would have had a completely different experience getting federal grants or loans because my spouse would not be included in the calculation.
- Gay people have different social and psychological needs. The rates of mental illness are far higher in the gay community, but there aren't a lot of psychiatrists and psychologists who specialize in treating these issues.
We are being beaten up still and killed, depending on where you are in the world. There are still a lot of inequalities. However, we probably shouldn't qualify as URMs because the discrimination is not systemic… Or something. There's no systemic discrimination against a group that more or less didn't exist in public eye until relatively recently.
Also, I think a lot of people are uncomfortable still with homosexuality being an innate characteristic. Since homosexuality is still a fraught, religious topic, people don't want to wade in. Finally, let's face it: how are you going to prove it? You can tell at a glance whether someone is black. Not too much with gay. There are movies made about just this.