We simply don't know the whole story, about her or even about what happened. We just have a snippet of both. If she were an anonymous or powerful person, I'd speculate till the cows came home (and often do). But she's not. She's a real human being, in a vulnerable position, being discussed on a public forum.
From one of her interviews:
"We actually settled while we were out there. I paid for the damages and I apologized to him and he accepted my apology," Ramkissoon said. "I’m so thankful that he did not press charges, that he did not have me arrested." "I think it’s ridiculous and I’m here to own up to what I did." "I’m taking responsibility for it and I’m asking for forgiveness."
That's not exactly the non-apology of a deeply narcissistic person (cf. the lying 32-year old shame that is Ryan Lochte).
She's not sympathetic--I get that--and I think she was rightfully fired. The rules are the rules, and doctors should be held to the highest standards.
But how much does a person need to suffer to make amends? Just Google her last name and read some of the comments. Many are frankly abusive and more than a little scary. In my view, the "punishment,"
when including the totality of hatred directed against her, does not, in fact, fit the crime--and we shouldn't forget that no charges were actually filed. Two private citizens worked it out, until a few unrelated parties decided to megaphone the situation across the internet.
I'd also like to point out the blatantly obvious fact that she's an attractive young doctor who was abusively mean to a quiet male driver. Lots of things are going here, and my speculation about personality wouldn't be limited to her, but to some of the people
most vociferous about her (
not saying this is you or anybody here, but Reddit is a lovely way to spend an afternoon losing faith in "nice guys" grappling with their own insecurities and frustrations about women). The vitriol wasn't nearly the same when that
Taco Bell executive beat the crap out of his Uber driver, which 1) happened almost exactly the same day, 2) involved people nearly the same age, and 3) had about the same disparity in class.
It's true that
men often get punished more, but women sure do get shamed an awful lot. I feel like this situation (+ the Taco Rage incident) is another example of that.
Anywho. The victim forgives her, and her career has been seriously damaged regardless. Nothing more to ask for. At the same time, everybody deserves redemption, and I hope she finds it eventually.