I'm sorry you and your little one are experiencing these complications. The pain you feel is too immediate, not yet blunted by time, and not yet overcome. Leave it off Secondaries for now.
I am sorry to hear about your tribulations - will definitely say a prayer for you and your family tonight! Stay positive! As Catalystik said, time might be the best thing right now.
I think with the crisis so raw and recent, including it in your secondaries would be a risk. It might cause you to be asked about it in interviews and it might be hard for you to stay unemotional. Channel your energies into the best secondaries possible. Best wishes and my prayers for the health of your baby and a favorable interview outcome.