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So did I...lol but still.I had an interview that went horrible =P
i wish interviews were like first dates.... you find out at the end if you closed the deal or not
Or you could get strung along for months without knowing anything...wait, I don't see the difference anymore... 😕
Some people are really not social, yet they think they can talk a good talk. I think there is a very good degree of separation among interviewees.
And I am surprised at how some people come unprepared, ie, don't why this school, don't know that you should have some questions prepared.
Some people are really not social, yet they think they can talk a good talk. I think there is a very good degree of separation among interviewees.
And I am surprised at how some people come unprepared, ie, don't why this school, don't know that you should have some questions prepared.
It's entirely possible for most interviews to go well, especially since the interview is only one facet of the process. I've been told by *all* of my interviewers in the past that they would recommend admission, but here I am in academia instead. 😉
We suck at gauging the quality of interviews generally, and it usually takes a third party to judge how we did (if we don't have access to immediate feedback).
really? weird. it seemed like everyone at all of my interviews was social.. walking up to random interviewees, starting conversations, etc. out of 25-30 interviewees.... i'd say maybe 2-3 were pretty quiet/withdrawn

I think it's not so much that we're bad at judging our own interviews as that we just have very little idea of what they're looking for. Some of my most engaging conversations have been with people I haven't thought much of. My point is that establishing a great rapport with your interviewer may make it seem like an awesome interview, but it isn't necessarily a sign that the interview actually went great...maybe the topic was just interesting, or some other factor came into play.
It's easy to reduce a great interview into just being very sociable and conversational, but there's so much more to it than that. The quiet, withdrawn ones may have qualities that shine through despite their reticence.