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I have been visiting this forum for awhile and find myself in need of some specific advice regarding financial aid. I am a non-traditional student, and will be completing my prereqs this winter. I will be applying next application cycle.
I am incredibly nervous about the impact of veterinary medicine on my future financial security. I would prefer to not go into much personal history publicly (but am happy to discuss the specifics privately), but I am in a situation that I believe may jeopardize my ability to obtain loans. Briefly, I have a parent with dementia; my other parent is the guardian and power of attorney. I am estranged from the parent who is guardian. My ill parent signed over EVERYTHING to this parent (much longer after the diagnosis, but that's a whole other can of worms). Additionally, this parent now has a very substantial amount of money, definitely enough that would disqualify me from financial assistance.
I believe, if I understand correctly, I will qualify for the Federal Direct Loan of about $40,000. However, I will not have a parent who will sign for it. Is this required? I will not qualify for anything other than private loans to compensate for the rest of my need (my in-state school is expensive) and I am very reserved about private loans. I have a friend in the private-loan business who discourages me heavily from going this route.
I am wondering if anyone knows if schools (or the government) will make an exception for unique circumstances like this when it comes to obtaining the additional government loans? I have loads of proof of estrangement. And please, before anyone suggests that I suck it up and repair the relationship, please understand that it is with great reason this has occurred and repair really isn't an option.
I am very hesitant to contact schools because I am fearful of being placed on some kind of "problem-causing" list. I know this is something I could discuss after acceptance, but the truth is that the financial insecurity I am feeling is enough to potentially cause me to change careers. That is a heartbreaking notion, but I have done exceptionally well in my courses and believe I would have other options in a more financially rewarding (but much less emotionally rewarding) career.
If I had considered these concerns a year ago, I would have said, "Whatever, I could live in a shoe box for the rest of my life." However, now, I am very worried that I do not have a cent to my name and may possibly be in way over my head financially. I worry that this will prevent me from ever buying a practice, starting a business, retiring, etc. I often hear veterinary medicine referred to as a "luxury field" (which I don't buy at all, it's incredibly necessary), which makes me nervous because I have no financial security.
So, I guess this post is wondering about two things: Has anyone gone through the financial aid process with similar circumstances (no parent to sign, not qualified for loans)? Also, I know we all have similar financial concerns, so I am wondering how you justified taking this plunge? I know that this is a fulfilling dream, but practically speaking, can a person (who attends veterinary school at today's cost) provide a comfortable future in this career? Has anyone decided against pursuing vet school for now and trying to earn money in another field to have a "buffer" before school? I am currently working (and have been) but my salary is nothing to write home about. I have recently considered getting a real estate license and selling real estate for a few years (which I believe I would be good at) to make some extra money.
I am incredibly nervous about the impact of veterinary medicine on my future financial security. I would prefer to not go into much personal history publicly (but am happy to discuss the specifics privately), but I am in a situation that I believe may jeopardize my ability to obtain loans. Briefly, I have a parent with dementia; my other parent is the guardian and power of attorney. I am estranged from the parent who is guardian. My ill parent signed over EVERYTHING to this parent (much longer after the diagnosis, but that's a whole other can of worms). Additionally, this parent now has a very substantial amount of money, definitely enough that would disqualify me from financial assistance.
I believe, if I understand correctly, I will qualify for the Federal Direct Loan of about $40,000. However, I will not have a parent who will sign for it. Is this required? I will not qualify for anything other than private loans to compensate for the rest of my need (my in-state school is expensive) and I am very reserved about private loans. I have a friend in the private-loan business who discourages me heavily from going this route.
I am wondering if anyone knows if schools (or the government) will make an exception for unique circumstances like this when it comes to obtaining the additional government loans? I have loads of proof of estrangement. And please, before anyone suggests that I suck it up and repair the relationship, please understand that it is with great reason this has occurred and repair really isn't an option.
I am very hesitant to contact schools because I am fearful of being placed on some kind of "problem-causing" list. I know this is something I could discuss after acceptance, but the truth is that the financial insecurity I am feeling is enough to potentially cause me to change careers. That is a heartbreaking notion, but I have done exceptionally well in my courses and believe I would have other options in a more financially rewarding (but much less emotionally rewarding) career.
If I had considered these concerns a year ago, I would have said, "Whatever, I could live in a shoe box for the rest of my life." However, now, I am very worried that I do not have a cent to my name and may possibly be in way over my head financially. I worry that this will prevent me from ever buying a practice, starting a business, retiring, etc. I often hear veterinary medicine referred to as a "luxury field" (which I don't buy at all, it's incredibly necessary), which makes me nervous because I have no financial security.
So, I guess this post is wondering about two things: Has anyone gone through the financial aid process with similar circumstances (no parent to sign, not qualified for loans)? Also, I know we all have similar financial concerns, so I am wondering how you justified taking this plunge? I know that this is a fulfilling dream, but practically speaking, can a person (who attends veterinary school at today's cost) provide a comfortable future in this career? Has anyone decided against pursuing vet school for now and trying to earn money in another field to have a "buffer" before school? I am currently working (and have been) but my salary is nothing to write home about. I have recently considered getting a real estate license and selling real estate for a few years (which I believe I would be good at) to make some extra money.

