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I agree with this, as one might assume; someone expressing support and/or joking about sexual violence in prisons -- or anywhere, for that matter, given the vast amount of rape jokes and comments that cover all forms of assault -- immediately signals a red flag in my mind about someone's character. I, too, am a survivor of sexual violence and the comments make me feel physically ill. It brings me directly back to the reactions of people after I reported my abuser; reactions full of doubt and victim blaming. Rape is never acceptable; it is always a heinous crime; it is never to be used to 'punish' someone; nobody deserves to be raped, no matter what they have done; no rapist deserves to be told his behavior is acceptable, no matter who he is victimizing; and, until this attitude is realized, progress cannot be made. The bottom line is that prisoners, no matter what their background, have -- as it should be -- a right to the same protections as other citizens, including the protection from such a horrific crime and, as MaenadsDance noted, the protection from cruel and unusual punishment (and if you want to try to argue that rape is not cruel and unusual, please talk to any survivor).I agree with Starlightembers, one of my quick methods of judging someone's character is whether they will casually joke about (or express support of) the epidemic of sexual assault in prisons. It's nauseating, particularly as a survivor, to hear people joking about it. If we're going to support the 2nd amendment, we have to support the eighth amendment too.
I would never try and make a confrontation. How practical is it to wake up, grab a phone, run up stairs and lock your strangely strong doors? Also consider that you will probably have seconds to react, your children might be between you and the intruder, and the intruder might be between you and any exit. The ideal situation for me would be to run into a room with a lock and call the police, but have my firearm within reach in-case the intruder don't just want to take a few things.
I am not saying you shouldn't have the right to "protect" yourself that way. I just want the right to protect myself the way I think will actually work.
As has already been pointed out throughout this thread, there are significant and undeniable holes in the argument of self-defense. Namely:
- While everyone is entitled to thinking something or holding an opinion, one is not, as the old saying goes, entitled to their own facts and the facts tell us that a gun in the home is far more likely to be fired in acts of suicide*, accidental shootings and homicides than in self-defense; that having a gun in the home increases, rather than decreases, the risk of falling victim to a homicide; and other countries with stronger gun laws have less gun violence.
In addition, though I believe this conversation is important to have, the chance of guns being banned is slim to none and there are laws that could be put in place besides banning all guns that would have prevented this. Such as, for example, tracking the guns that each person buys, so that, when people collect mass amount of guns, authorities can be alerted. And so on.
On the other side of this, it is also important to point out that someone in that theater having a gun would not have likely helped. If anything, attempting to use a gun in such an intense, high-stress, disoriented situation would have only resulted in more injuries.